What should i do to my fiancee?

Question

should i accept not virgin woman or not?

i dnt knw what to do...

should i marry her???

i dnt like not virgin woman,,,

so its hard 4 me 2 decide because i love her..

im elated of what should i need to do...

please help me...

Answer 1

wow get off your high horse i'm sure you knew you she wasn't a virgin when you asked her to marry you....why does it matter now!! are you even one? if you love her who cares......i was my husband wasn't i don't care.....people like you make me mad

Answer 2

If virginity is an issue for you and you have not lost it yourself, then i'd suggest you don't marry her. Because later on its gonna be an issue between you both. Go get a girl from a remote place instead of searching for her in a metropolitan jungle. You won't meet your type of girl in cities that easily.

On the other hand if you are not a virgin and insisting that she be one then you are being a jerk and she's better off without you.

Answer 3

To answer the specific question, you should let your fiancee go so she can meet a man of character, one who does not think that previous sexual experience in her history is a PLUS.  Your values and hers do not line up.  This will surface as a problem in time.

Answer 4

look if u love her then u should accept her as she is

take care tht she has no relations frm past and tht she is honest and dedicated to u, and after marriage she is only urs is wat u shld make sure. Ask her to break contacts wit hpast.

and 1 thing every 1 has past, if u would have had a GF then even u could have been n"not a virgin" and if boys can have s*x b4 marriage so can girls..

but still one thing if u r a virgin, then u have all the right to find a partner for u whos a virgin as well.

but think and act.  

Answer 5

I tell you one thing: s*x with an experienced woman is much better than anything else, says my partner. Man - either you love her or you don´t!

Answer 6

Good luck in ever finding a woman who is a virgin. It just isn't common anymore. Are you a virgin? If not.....get over it...there's no law saying a man can have premarital s*x but a woman can't. This is 2008...you either love her or you don't.

Answer 7

well you already asked her to marry you. you would be a serious jerk if you left her, because she isn't a virgin. Which is a fact you knew before you asked her to marry you. if you love her, you will get over her past. which is just that... her past. You are her present and her future. That is all you should worry about. All that matters is that you will be the last person she will have s*x with.

Answer 8

Are you a virgin? If not, then you are being a hypocrite and asking something of your fiancee that you didn't ask of yourself. Most people in modern times lose their virginity before marriage. Just because you have s*x before marriage it does not mean you're a s**t and it does not mean that the s*x did not happen out of love. If being a non virgin is her worse fault, then you would be very stupid not to marry the woman that you love and asked to marry you. In the long, long run of marriage, being a nonvirgin is of little to no consequence, since many things will change in the future and happiness in your relationship will depend on strength of character and ability to adapt to change. Ultimately, you will likely regret letting her go if that's what you decide to do since you love her. Sometimes, the traditional values of our cultures have us completely fooled. Give her the chance she deserves... in my humble opinion.

Answer 9

how you define virginity u know virgin means a person who has never had s*x.

ULTIMATELY its a matter of one night, or once u undergo s*x with opposite s*x ur virginity is over.

The more over matter is Love, understandings,

the matter of consideration is How she is non-virgin, by marriage or with some friend or customer, or

that reason of non-virginity is required to be considered, or causes behind her non-virginity. If the causes are genuine then accept her, otherwise neglect her, very CLEAR.

Answer 10

Find that virgin woman. Leave her if that is what you want.

You better be a virgin yourself.

Answer 11

feel lucky to have someone to love and freakin marry her.

Answer 12

First you have to faith and trust upon your finance,IF you love her

sincerly and your fiancee also in deep love with you ,then having

this kind of doubt is really foolishness.Once this kind of

question arised in your brain your married life will not be happy.

First you cultivate the habbits of faith and trust and then you

think about marriage.