ok... here's the deal..i am pretty certain that i am pregnant. i took a test and it was most definitely positive, plus i am late and had unprotected s*x,etc...i am not here to ask am i pregnant. what i want to know is should i tell my mom? i am a legal consenting adult who is in a bit a tangled web of legal issues and such. long story short, i am uncertain as to if i am going to have a place to call home much longer, my bf might be going to prison for something he had nothing to do with(very complicated situation there), and his dad is pretty much going to spend the rest of his life in jail. i don't want to bring a kid into this situation, and due to all the uncertainities in my life, i have decided not to bring another person into this complicated situation. my bf and i have discussed this til we are blue in the face and feel it is our best option. i don't want any rude comments telling me what i have decided to do is wrong because i am totally against abortion...but in this situation i feel it is the best option. we have decided to tell his dad about it since we felt he should know and plus he confirmed our decision was the best one. however, now my bf is asking me why i haven't told my mom. i just don't want to deal the hassle and i know how bad she wants grandkids. i promised him i wouldn't tell anyone about it..but now he's asking me to tell my mom. i just don't want another hassle to deal with as my life is plenty stressful enough...what should i do???
prior to my finding out that i am pregnant...my mom and i have talked "hypothetically" about this situation and she agreeed with me then that it would be best not to have a child in this situation. and i do agree that there are some situations that abortion is the only answer...and quite frankly i don't think that i could have a child and then give it up for adoption. i do however, feel abortion is "wrong" and it is "killing" but my situation is a difficult one to understand. i don't want to raise a child without a family, no place to live, etc. it's not fair to myself, the child's father, nor the child. i just can't see that happening right now. i know how hard it will be physically, emotionally, and spiritually to go thru with an abortion and while no one is ever ready for that, i am about as ready as i will ever be.
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