What should i do when he tells me one things then tell me something different later?!?

Question

ok i met this guy, he's from NY & he just moved here. well im the only person he really hangs out with & we like each other. well we've been hangin out alot lately & he's been tellin me he wants to take everything slow & ive been ok with it. but the other night he told me he wasnt ready for a relationship, but we could mess around. do i still hang out with him & be friends, or cut it all loose?

Answer 1

No no don't just mess around... that's beneath you..  If he's not ready, he's not ready.  I'd let him go, and move on.  He's trying to use you and taking you for granted, so don't let him do it.  It'll make you feel cheap and used.   Keep your head up and respect yourself... don't let him drag you down like that.  Good luck hon.