What should i do when my best friend has suddenly 'gone off' me?

Question

I have been best friend with this girl for a year and a half and then a month ago she stopped hanging out with me at lunch times....stopped calling me ever night and when i tried to call she was never there and we never do anything anymore. she now has this new 'best friend' who gets her drunk and stoned and makes it a competition to see how many guys theyve slept with i mean we are only 14! yea well if anyones got any advice on what to do it would be very appreaciated :)

Answer 1

Firstly, i think your better off without her friendship if that's how she is behaving.

Secondly, ive gone through the same thing where some of my bestest friends have gone off, and done stuff that i didn't approve of and it has destroyed our friendship beyond repair.

The best thing to do is honestly just to let they go through this then, when she is over it (and she will be, Trust me) if she truly is your friend she will come back. if she doesnt, then the friendship isnt worth it at all.

Answer 2

tell her straight up that you miss her, if she isnt willing to change even a little bit, im sorry to say this but move on. if she is willing to change a little, little by little u win :)

Answer 3

i think that if she is doing that, get other friends they'll probably be a better friend to you than your ex best friend

Answer 4

i certainly would not give up on her

i know she has taken the wrong path, but deep down who she used to be is still there

try and help her

if she wont listen call in backup

she needs help and if let her drift away to far, she could cause severe damage to herself. possibly death

dont pay any attention to the negative things she will say to you

she doesnt mean it

you both have a life ahead of you

and this is just one small bump

you have the power to change her life

you can do anything

whatever you do dont get sucked in to it with her

it easier to get sucked in than you think

over all be yourself

a very wise man once said, if it is too easy, than its not the right path.

Answer 5

Hmm.. try sending her a message on like

facebook, msn, whatever you use and just ask

her whats going on and if you guys are still

friends or not. Only send one though, if you

send like 5 it's going to seem obsessive and..

creepy haha. Good luck hun =)

Answer 6

When I was your age I had a friend like that. We were hanging out every single day and calling each other every night and then one day she met these other kids who would sneak out, smoke weed, drink etc. and I had no interest in doing any of those things. It hurt my feelings that she just kind of ditched me, but then she saw that she really had nothing in common at all with them, except that they could get high together. She finally apologized to me and we have been best friends for the last nine years. Don't wait around for her phone call just go hang out with some other friends who enjoy the things you do and one day your friend will come looking for you. If she ever tries to pressure you into having s*x and or doing drugs then she isn't a friend you really want anyways.  

Answer 7

stay away