What should i do with Boyfriend?

Question

I am not a virgin but my boyfriend is and we are going to have s*x for the first time. He wants it to be something he will always remember so i asked him what he wanted and he said he wants hardcore s*x. I dont really want to so i told him i would think about it. We have been dating for a while and we both love each other. Should i tell him no and what else would he always remember? or should i just do what he wants and please him?

Answer 1

No WAY! Dont do that..if you dont want to.

Everyone remembers there first time I dont see why you have to do something different..

Answer 2

I honestly don't understand what hardcore s*x is. I mean... If you don't want to, then tell him. I'm sure there are other way to please him. Plus he's a virgin so if you told him you were having hardcore s*x when you weren't, he probably wouldn't even know. =)  

Answer 3

Just tell him no! Im sure when he has hardcore s*x he will pass out from the pleasure! Just give him blow jobs, and other stuff like that and im sure he will remeber it!

Answer 4

As opposed to softcore s*x? It depends how old you are.

Answer 5

What's hardcore s*x? I don't think a virgin is likely to forget whatever s*x he gets.  

Answer 6

Dont be pushed into something you dont want to do

Answer 7

If you dont feel comfortable doing it then dont. If he loves you he will understand. On the other hand if you havnt tried it, you should! You never know you might like it!

Answer 8

There needs to be a compromise here if you are not in favor of it.  Otherwise, he will figure it will always be his way or no way.  It is decent of you to want to please him - but what about you?  Don't you count?  It needs to be mutual satisfaction.

Answer 9

let the man have fun =[  

Answer 10

You never know what to expect during s*x, so just do it. All of this "planning before you actually do it" doesn't mean anything.

Answer 11

i wouldn't do it if you are uncomfortable with and he shouldn't want you to either...i would do maybe just different positions other than boring old missionary; i'm sure he won't forget that...

Answer 12

wow..im 16 and i tried it  ;-p ...its fun

try it u ent got anythin to loose ..lol