What should i do with Her?

Question

my wife is pain in the butt ,she was fat and i told her many times to stop eating that stuff,with much nagging she started to diet and now she dosent eat sugar,or fats unless if i count night craving sometimes is something i can count ,but most of the times she eats salads,non fatty crackers and brown bread ,and the amount are silly ,sometimes she pours for herself 3 spoons of rice with some veggies or meat and she gets up

add to this she isnt intersted in s*x anymore,,

she looks like a skeleton and when i talk to her ,she just dont listeon to what i FU$king say

should i set trail to divorce her

Answer 1

It sounds as if you're the pain in the butt. You should be sympathising  and helping her, instead of ridiculing her all the time and calling her names (when she was overweight). She has obviously been affected by your comments and has taken it to the other extreme. She would do herself a favour if she divorced you. Not the other way round.

Answer 2

You're an inconsiderate idiot.  You wanted her to lose weight and she did, but now she's too thin and you're criticizing what she eats....  You probably started her on an eating disorder and made her sick.

Be a bit supportive since you started this cycle in the first place.   And grow up you moron!

Answer 3

Your an idiot, first, you complain she's fat, now you are complaining she skinny, what do you want!  NO, she should divorce you for being a moron of a husband.  Just show her support and kindness, maybe you will get some!  Question should be what should she do with YOU!

Answer 4

i used to love her!

but i had to kill her!

i had to put her

6 foot under!

and i still hear her complain!

Answer 5

you don't care if she's fat or skinny.  you just want an excuse to be pissant to her.  you just want control over her OR you're trying to make her mad enough so she'll leave you.  that way you don't feel guilty and can claim she left you, she's the jerk.

honey, you have more problems than your wife's weight.  start with what isn't between your ears (or probably anyplace else).  you seriously need some mental intervention.

Answer 6

time 2 cut that 1 loose, only gets worse.

Answer 7

It actually sounds like you are emotionally abusing her, she should divorce your @$$. I would withhold s*x from you too, you seem to be like a big fat jerk.

Answer 8

I think she needs to divorce you!! First you're calling her fat (and you think she is a pain) and you expect her not to change her behaviour towards you with concerns to her body? I think this woman has issues with her eating and you're not helping her. She needs support and her self esteem back so she can eat normally. If you can't be doing with this then maybe you should have a divorce. You obviously don't love her enough or care about her. You are caring about what you look like when you are with her. Treat her properly and she will start to listen to you.

Answer 9

Get a divorce, if you weren't happy with her fat, she changed herself for you, and now you aren't happy with her being skinny.  Also, the fact that she doesn't want to have s*x may have something to do with the low self esteem she got when you told her she was fat.  Let her go, find a supermodel and move on with your life.

Answer 10

The eating isn't so much of a problem as the no s*x. That is outrageous. I would send her back to her mother and get a bit of decent totty in pronto.

Answer 11

How much more insensitive can you be? First you said that she was fat, she doesn't want to have s*x, and now she's skinny. What in the h**l else do you want. You have turned your wife into a robot. When you first got married what did she look like. Your wife is probably not happy with herself (BECAUSE OF YOU). The poor lady may need some counseling after dealing with a jerk like you. She should be the one looking to get a divorce.

Answer 12

Personally I would not listen to what you say either. If my husband would "nag" me or call me "fat" I would set the trail to divorce him! Partners are supposed to ENCOURAGE not nag nor say hateful things to one another. i.e: fat. She probably think that you are not attracted to her, hence the reason for not being interested in s*x. Sounds to me like you need counseling, the two of you.  

Answer 13

lol . dont divorce her , stick by her side.....  obviously a lot of calories stick by her side as well.

Answer 14

You should blame yourself for how she is now. When she was heavier you were mean to her and practically nagged her into dieting and changing her lifestyle. Due to how you acted, she took it too far and is now too skinny. Because of you she probably has horrible self-esteem which is why she's no longer interested in s*x. If she's smart, she'll get rid of you and find a man who understands what respect and love in a marriage truly is.

Answer 15

wow, I just can't say I like you.  she doesn't listen to what you FU$King say because she's FU$king someone else.

Answer 16

no but she should divorce you!!!!!! you sound like an insensitive d**k! sorry you call her fat and wonder why she doesnt want to have s*x with you???!!?? are you kidding i dont know about any other women out there but i wouldnt b turned on after being insulted...and now that shes lost the weight your still not happy? she deserves better then this....

Answer 17

you forced her to loose weight? your a t**t. fullstop.

Answer 18

dont divorce her, unless you physically cannot live with her...

try everything and tell her you are making the effort for her..

if she doesnt respond........ use the door wisely..

Answer 19

sounds to me your the problem here. you say- "she was fat and i told her many times to stop eating that stuff" and now your saying shes a skeleton..

HELLO!! ever heard of an eating disorder?!

its your fault. you are meant to love her for her not call her fat. if you where worried about her health there are nicer ways to tell people, other than "your fat".. so in answer too your question, id say yes get a divorce, she will be better off without you.

Answer 20

can u give me an idea on how fat she was before, and how thin she is now? roughly in pounds?  bec if she was once fat, and now thin and loving it, she probably is just enjoying her new body. and perhaps it's not that she's not interested in s*x, she probably is not interested in YOU anymore...

but if you feel that she should see a doctor, then by all means let her see a medical specialist.  be there for him, since it was you in the first place who prodded her to eat less and lose weight.

Answer 21

TELL HER TO EAT HEALTH CHOICE FOOD IT HELP ME TO LOSE WEIGHT I LOSE ALOTS WEIGHT EATTING HEALTH CHOICE TELL HER DO NOT EAT JUNK FOOD IT BAD FOR YOU DRINK 6 YOUR 8 GLASS WATER GO WALKING TOGETHER HELP TO LOSE WEIGHT  YOU BOTH IN GROW UP STOP ACT  LIKE A CHILD  GIVE HER CHANGE

TO LOSE WEIGHT STOP  TALKING HER  LIKE THAT STOP NAGGING AT HER ALL TIME  YOU BOTH IN TALK TO SOMEONE HELP YOU BOTH GOOD LUCK? NO DIVORCE HER GIVE HER CHANGE OK?

Answer 22

Yes because she doesn't need all that drama in her life.  That is why she ignores you.  She has no real use for you.

Answer 23

with an attitude like that, who'd be interested in s*x? She's done what you nagged her to do, and you're still not happy. You still count her calories and nag. Why should she listen to you?

She needs support, roses, and someone who appreciates that she took his advice.  

Answer 24

Please divorce the poor woman. She can pull any man she likes now.

Answer 25

Wow, your a mean husband. She is better off without you.  

Answer 26

well because your  stupid for doing that to her, if you married her, you should of did it because you love no matter what she looks like. now you made her sick, you need to die

Answer 27

woah, whats wrong with you - you told her she's fat and "with much nagging she started to diet" ?

seriously, divorce her, and show her this page so she can see all the lovely comments proving that she's better off without you.

kinda sounds like you don't deserve her anymore.

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Answer 28

calling her fat was your first mistake. making fun of someone makes them feel inferior you have probably turned her off so that's why she isn't interested in s*x. time to sit down and have a long heart to heart about how she feels.

Answer 29

Yes, she would be better off without you.

Answer 30

First you nagged your wife about her weight, now you're unhappy because she's dieting.  Either way, you have something to complain about.  It's no surprise that she doesn't want to have s*x with you, considering you're such a nag and no matter what she does, you aren't happy. I suggest you try counseling for couples.  

Answer 31

kindly tell her to start eating more

take her out for cheesecake and make her eat it, say that please eat it for me.