What should i do with my dad?

Question

okay my parents are divorced and well in the last 2 1/2 months i haven't been to my dads but he still came over and i still called him.. and today i asked if i could stay the night and he said yes and then he called my mom and said all these rude things and saying she told me i had to go to my dads and she never said that!! she didn't even now i was going to his house until he called her and said that and then i called and ask him why he did that and he kept saying what do you wanna do and stuff and then i hung up on him.....he dose this every time i try too come over...what should i do?

Answer 1

just  take  moiveves

Answer 2

Sounds like your dad is trying to hurt you and your mother.  I would do one of two things.  1.- go over to his house and try to have a rational conversation with him about why he is doing these things.  2.- just ignore him and don't call, don't go over.  If you don't want to continue to be hurt, then don't continue the relationship.  Up to you, but I would try the first thing.  Just try and keep up the good feelings so your relationship doesn't suffer when you're older.

Good luck!

hOpE i HeLpEd!

Answer 3

Sounds like dad is still trying to hurt mom with words and has overlooked what he is doing to you. Invite him for lunch away from the house and tell him how you feel, and how it hurts you. If you two work togeater you can get through it. Then talk to mom as well tell her how your being torn apart by the both of them. Adults seem to forget when they are angry who they are really hurting. I will bet your dad doesn't want to lose his relationship with you, just talk to them.