What should i do with my son???

Question

so i don't want to sound over protective but it's my right is'nt it? my son is 30 and this girl that he met just changed him.she's only 15 and i hear him all the time saying that he loves her.i don't want him to go to jail for this little girl.i called her and told her to stay away from him.she told him and he said he hates me.the little girl parents is pushing her up too cause they know we're rich.my son told them not to answer the phone when i call.they have this tree with their initials on it.it's so disgusting.she acts way to grown for her age.i have no idear what my son could find interesting in this little girl.he buys anything she says she wants..he's also her teacher so they will be seeing alot of each other.i don;t know what to do anymore.she is also a very nasty girl.she has alot of s*x with guys and i'm afraid for my son.

i'm at my wit's end and i really need help.what should i do?i can't call the police cause my son will be arrested for sure.help!!!

Answer 1

WOW!! And your son is a teacher!! I remember back to when I was 14 I dated a guy who was 28!! My parents were furious to say the least! And I just didn't see what the big deal was, I thought they just didn't want me to be happy. Now, looking back on it I think HOW FRIGGIN SICK HE WAS!! I was 14 for gods sake!! What the h**l could a man that age want with a 15 year old girl other than the obvious! And you are trying to keep him away from her like she is a bad example or something! YOU MAKE ME SICK TOO!! thinking that your son is innocent in all this! He is the one who should know better not the 15 yr old!! She is young and so impressionable at this age and all she is looking for is a man or someone to accept her and love her! She is probably missing out on alot at home and is going else where to get what she needs! YOUR SON SHOULD BE IN JAIL!!! And all you can think about is poor him!!! Poor her! For being taken advantage of by a man twice her age! And someone she should be able to trust too A TEACHER!! I cannot believe how mad this is making me, If I knew who you or your son were I would call the cops, the news and whoever would listen in a heartbeat!!!!!! You sound to me just as screwed up in the freaking head as your crazy pervert son does!!!  God Help that little girl and I will pray that she doesn't get totally screwed up in the head thanks to what your SICK< SICK TEACHER SON HAS DONE TO HER!!!! AND IS PROBABLY DOING THIS MINUTE!!

Answer 2

let him go to jail, he's 30 years old, not 13. this isn't your business anymore.  

Answer 3

He is 30, and unless you can get 2 doctors to certify he is mentally incompetent there is nothing you can do.

If you family has money you need to see an attorney to make sure his actions will not become a part of your family's financial status.

Any trusts or partnerships in which he may hold an interest will place all of your interests in financial jeopardy

Answer 4

What a COMPLETELY made up,FAKE question! Your son is 30 years old and you are making phone calls to girls for him??? RIGHT! My SON is 14 and I don't even do that...if this is real (which it's NOT)...you need to cut the umbilical cord and get your Child-Molesting son some Physchiatric help!

Answer 5

threaten to cut him out of the will or cut of his monthly allowence or threaten to go the the police and tell hime that she is a child and since he is thirty there is somthing wrong with that or try to pay her off and make her sign a contract or her parents

Answer 6

your doing the right thing. i dont know how a 30 yr old could like a 15 yr old. your not being over protective. thats sick. aslong as your son hasnt had s*x with her he wont be arrested because legally he hasnt dont anything wrong. good luck. ill be praying for you and you son.

Answer 7

You have to decide if you can overcome the guilt it will cause by taking matters into your own hands. There are a couple of things you can do, but I'm afraid they may all end up with your son spending some time in jail. You can call the police, child protective services or the school (since I'm sure they have a strict policy on teacher/student relationships). If you're not prepared to live with the guilt, however, be prepared to live with the embarrassment this will cause. Someone will report them. Her parents may encourage her now, but what happens the minute your son can jump to the little princess' needs? Maybe he'll have a faculty meeting or a house payment due or some other adult issue that needs addressing and puts her on hold. Whatever the case, it will happen, and Mommy & Daddy & Princess might have to holler statutory rape.

Answer 8

Here's the problem.  If you go the police or the school, your son will hate you forever which I'm sure you don't want.  If you can, talk to him.  If not, write him a letter and explain the consequences of his actions.  He is an adult and he will choose his path.  Unfortunately, if he chooses to make the wrong desicions, he will pay the consequences and there will be nothing you can do about it.  You can try to forewarn him but your involvement in all this should probably end there.

Actually, I think Jennifer S has a really good point.

Answer 9

you should be afraid for your son...try talking to him once more and explain that if he doesn't end this, that you will call the police...there's really no gray area here.

Answer 10

Your son is DOUBLE her age. In my mind, this is unacceptable. There's not much you can do though....talk to your son rationally and make sure he understands what he's doing is wrong and weird. The 15 year old girl should wait until she's 18 and he's 33 to date maybe, if anything at all.

Answer 11

this is none of your business. he's 30 and can take care of himself. i'm not saying that what he's doing is right, but really, what CAN you do? he'll eventually go to jail. i'm sure she'll get knocked up or something. so just relax, and mind your own business.

Answer 12

I will help you.  Tell me the name of your son, the name of the child and the name of the school.  I can have it over with by the evening.

Your problem is not being an overprotective mother.  I will leave it to you to deduce what your problems are.

Answer 13

wow there is nothing you can do in the end he is going  to do what he wants

Answer 14

I would tell them that if they do not end it now that you are going to tell the police. If they don't end the relationship and break all ties then tell the authorities! That sounds like the only way you can stop this. That is disgusting, I know he is your son but that's sick. Sorry.. he must not be able to see the little selfish girl inside that just wants his money. Hope everything works out for you.  

Answer 15

She is a child and your son is a grown adult.  You should talk to the police and get HIM to stay away from HER.

WOAH,  I just re-read,  he is her TEACHER?!?!  Disgusting. He should be in jail, that is ILLEGAL.

Answer 16

Your son is a grown man and he should know better!  There's nothing else you can do.  Guaranteed, he WILL end up in prison.  Not only is that statutory rape, it's a violation because he's her teacher.  You should remind him that he's digging himself into a hole.  I can't believe the girl's parents aren't intervening.  You can call the police.  If you know what's going on and he gets caught, does that make you an accessory to a crime???  Good luck!  

Answer 17

your son is a pedaphile. and thats gross. the fact that he is a teacher makes me want to have my kids homeschooled. you're not being overprotective but your not being a good mother either. your son obviously doesn't know right from wrong and should be jailed. the gurl should know better also, but you son is the adult, and he needs to be an adult. i really think he is a pediphile, and he should get some help. thats gross and i feed sorry for the other gurls in that school.  

Answer 18

wow what a situation, first of all if he doesnt stop they will not only arrest him but take his teaching credentials for good and be careful that she doesnt get pregnant either from him or someone else kuz she will go for the money, thats probably why shes with him, try to introduce some older women to your son, i know its his life but what hes doing is far beyond wrong.

Answer 19

That is... just... words can't explain that. Have you ever wondered if there is something wrong with your son? I mean he's 30, and he's dating his 15 year old student. He's literally twice her age. That is the definition of pedophilia.  

Answer 20

you need to call her parents and your son is her teacher????...how can live with yourself knowing that theres a grown man thats suppose to be a role model to these children is abusing them(30 year old in a relationship with a 15 year old is abuse)...your son or not...you should be a good parent and put an end to it now...even if that means calling the cops...