What should i tell her....heeeelp..........?

Question

my friend told me she was "abused" by her step-brother when she was still a kid. and she told me they still live together, but she doesnt know how to behave/act around him, she told me it kills her, whenever she thinks about it, but then she doesnt know what to do, or chose not to talk to him, or not even be around him.

i dont know what to say to make her feel better, but i would do any thing, i love mi friend. HEEEELP!!!!

Answer 1

what kind of abuse? sexual, verbal, physical?   any of these should be reported....especially sexual,because if he did it to her he could have or will do it to other kids...how old is she?? she should definatly talk to her parents... or maybe the parent that she is not living with....

Answer 2

Tell her this to make her feel better: He Should Be In JaiL!! He did an illegal thing!!  

Answer 3

You shouldn't be concerned about saying something that makes her

"feel better".  She should NOT be living with him.  She should report it to Child Protective Services.  Do her parents know?  I'm telling you, it is imperative that she does not live with this guy.  The abuse is continuing every day that she has to face him and feel creepy.  Who knows? It might happen again.  He may be abusing other children.

Depending on where you live, there may be free services for psychological therapy for her.  Many children have gone through this and there is help.  Please help your friend get help.

Answer 4

if she is not happy there then she should concider moving out

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