What should i tell her??

Question

ok so today me and my mom were on our way home from the store and shes like Leslie can i ask you a personal question and i was like ummm yea i guess she asked me if i would tell her when i started having s*x and i was like i dont know that would be weird but i didnt tell her the fact that i already have had s*x so i dont know what to do by the way im 15 i will be 16 in january

Answer 1

Be honest. If not you will regret it later. Honesty is the key.

Answer 2

As a mommy. You should tell her. Get to a gynecologist and talk about birth control and ways to protect yourself from STD's. I know as a teen, you sometimes think you know..but you don't and that is ok...one day you will. It is about being safe and protecting yourself and others. First step to being a responsible young adult is to take the steps to being responsible....Being honest and upfront...

I am done preaching.  Take care of yourself...people love you and want you around!!!

Answer 3

She is just trying to be a good mom.

My mom and I were very open and talked about everything. She was a good mom and I still feel that I can tell her anything. It has made our relationship unbreakable.

There are alot of scary things out there for girls to deal with. I think she loves you and just wants to make sure you are ok and making good choices. You are a lucky girl to have her.

Answer 4

Yea, you should. Your mom just wants to make sure you're safe, that's all.

Your mom sounds pretty cool.

Answer 5

I would just be honest with her. She obviously cares and wants to know! I think it would be better to talk to your mom about it then ignore it!

Good luck!

Answer 6

i agree..u should just tell your mom the truth..its better than lying because at one point, she may find out

Answer 7

You should be honest with your mom.  She's gonna find out anyway, either by walking in on you or finding out your pregnant.  If she knows what your doing, then you wont have to hide it (takes some fun out of it, I know) and she would be more apt to make sure your protected.  I hope you are already protecting yourself by using condoms AND birth control pills.  If you have not started on the pill already, discuss this with your mom.  Im sure that she would support this.

What's good here is that your mom sees that she cant control what you do but she can help you protect yourself.  Just be honest with her awkward as it may be.  Youll feel better in the end. :)

Answer 8

just be honest with her, that will gain her trust!

Answer 9

just be honest with her!!! there is nothing more you can do why try to hide it