What should i tell my friend who's always asking me for money?

Question

My friend's boyfriend apparantly dumped her and she basically depended on him for everything..Now that her bf aaint here, and even b4 they were together, she wont quit asking me for MONEY?..when her bf was here she used to be rude and mean to me. she told me she needed money to send to her mom abroad..why cant she tell her mom she dosent have the monney? I thought i wud get money by 2morrow but as it appears i wont be getting it..i told her i would send her by 2 morrow but, right now i dont have it....what should i do??

Answer 1

Why isn't her mom paying for her own trip? Because she's got someone else to pay it. See where your friend is getting her habits from?

Answer 2

Tell her the Bank of Carey is closed forever. Why would you constantly loan someone money if you know you won't see it again? Just tell her you can't give her money and if she gives your the guilt trip and tells you that you lied, blah blah...Tell her she is a horrible friend for thinking she can rely on people for money. Tell her to get a job while you are at!

Answer 3

i can help you but no money involve....

Answer 4

WHAT!!!!!!!!!!! ARE YOU A BANK?  You do not give money to people who do not pay you back and even if they do they do not deserve your money.  That shouldn't even be a question.

Why do you care if her mother needs money?  That is her problem not yours.  She is a user who only likes you because you give her money and no one else will.

If your rich uncle dies and leaves you a fortune, she does not deserve a penny.  What is wrong with people who work hard save their money and give it away to people who don't?

You tell her to go earn her own money that your not a bank and you work hard for your money and your keeping it.

If she stops being your friend she wasn't your friend to start with.

Answer 5

Not trying to be rude but realistic.  When you do get the money, you should get yourself some professional help.  You know she's using you as her personal financial institution and for things that are not even necessary (to send her mom abroad?) and you are wondering what you should do?

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CAN YOU SAY, "MY NAME IS NOT CI TI BANK?!

Answer 6

Parasites are hard to get rid of, but you must try. Tell her you won't be giving her any money from today on.  

Answer 7

Say to her. Hey, what do you think I am, a bank?  Go away.  

Answer 8

Tell her you don't have any. Times are tough for everyone.  

Answer 9

Carey, sounds like she has found a moneybag friend, you. You are being used and I'm sure it does not feel good at all. Time for you to tell her that you are out of money and it is sad that your friendship is based on you giving money away. Every user has a sad story, that is their way of making you feel guilty. Do not give in and keep your money and dignity.Good luck!

Answer 10

Tell her you're broke

Answer 11

Why is it your responsibility to give her money for her mother?  For that matter, why is it your responsibility to give her money for ANYTHING?  If she doesn't have a job, she needs to get one.  If she has one, she needs to find a second job.  You aren't her parent and you aren't her personal bank.  So just tell her, "No, I'm sorry, but I can't give you any more money."

Then stick to it and don't give her any.

Answer 12

First of all, why are you friends with her if she is rude and mean to you?  Why would you waste your time with someone like that.

Just tell her no when she asks for money.  Just because she asks doesn't mean you have to give it to her.  Her mother's travel plans are most definitely NOT your problem.  If she asks why, just tell her you can't afford it.  Keep saying no, and you'll soon find out if she is really your friend.  I'm betting she'll move on to some other sucker...and you don't need a friend like that.