What should i wear for a funeral and what are they like ?

Question

Im nearly 15 years old and my aunty who was like a nan to me has just passed away and i have been torn to pieces. I have never lost anyone before so it is quite a big thing that has happend to me so i have never been to a funeral before. What shall I wear that is still fashionable ? What are they like? And should i wear eye make up even though ill be upset?

thanks guys

,x

Answer 1

just turn up!

Answer 2

Dont wear any makeup on your eye... If you cry it'll drip down and sometimes burn your eyes.

In mostly funerals... You wear Black..and it can be as dashionable as u want it!!! Just make sure its black..

and im sorry for your Lost...

-anTonEttE*

Answer 3

i wore an a line black skirt with a black shirt to my grandma's memorial.  i wouldn't wear make-up.  

Answer 4

Don't wear any make-ups because they'll just fade when you cry. Just wear a simple white shirt on top and blask pants with matching black eye glasses. I see girls wearing like that cute.

Answer 5

Just remember the rule of thumb when it comes to funerals and fashions...all the eyes will be on the dearly departed, as long as the deceased looks good, it really doesn't matter what you look like. It's not a fashion show.

Answer 6

You're ging to a funeral, not a wedding. A plain black skirt and a black or white shirt/blouse is appropriate. Ditch the idea of make-up. Like i said, its not a wedding!

Answer 7

Oh im very sorry for your lost,i loast my nan in june and i know how hard it is also im 15 as well lol!

Well when i went to my nans funeral i wore a pair of black trousers,and shirt with a black top over.You never want to be the centre of attention at the funeral so dont try to be fashionable!If i were you i wouldnt wear make up unless you want to end up looking like a panda when you get out=[

Well funerals are VERY hard.but once its over you feel good youve went to say goodbye.Well first you go to the register office,then you sit in a church and usually they say speechs and tell you about your nans life.there play a few songs and then yeah you know the rest.Also take in to mind other people like your cousions and your anties husband/boyfriend and your mum or dad.Give hugs and kisses and remember to say you last goodbyesI know its really hard that day out of all days but youre going to remember this day for the rest of your life!

Good luck with the funeral =[=[ xxxxx *hugs*

Answer 8

wear dark clothes. if you think you will cry don't wear eye make up. keep your voice down. laughing or telling jokes at a funeral is disrespect full.

they are not fun. they are painful if not to you for losing a loved one , than watching people you love fall apart and cry in front of you.

ive been to several. it doesn't  get any easier the more you go to.

Answer 9

At funerals, people come to show their respect to the one who passed away, AND their support to family.  So I expect a lot of people to talk to you, tell you they are sorry for your loss, they will probably tell you what the remember most about your aunt.  You probably wont remember a lot of it once its over.  The funeral is not about what you wear or look like - it's more about support and sweet people showing their concern and love.  Plan to tear up and be hugged a lot  Also, you will have another role to be supportive of the immediate family - like your aunt's husband and kids.  Your cousins just lost their mother.  

  I'm sorry for your loss.

Answer 10

Black all over

Answer 11

black