My brother is suffering from some depression and frustrations and is subjected to an anti-depressant as well as a counselling treatment. His problem is that whenever someone annoys him, he sends them anynomous emails from his laptop at home to express his anger and frustration. Recently, some students in the university in which he studies who don't like him reported him to the dean of school as causing them great distress and harassment. He has a formal meeting with the dean (who has already informed the police) soon the result of which might be referring the cause to desciplinary hearing. He is frightened since then: can't eat or sleep well or practice any normal life activity coz he's terrified that he might be suspended from the university. In the formal meeting, which is the best thing to do? Should he deny writing such anynomous emails? In this case, will this be discovered? What the university might do with him if it is discovered that he was lying? Should he tell the truth explaining the stresses he went through and how he was a victim of many dirty games made by his group which hates him? Should he concentrate on his over-sensitivity and nature and how it was difficult for him to learn what people say about him or receive emails from them without replying, even anynomously? Should he tell them about his depression and frustrations hoping that they will consider this? I'm really worried about my brother who has been extremely anxious feeling that his academic future is in danger. I'll appreciate it if you read my enquiries carefully and give a detailed advice in light of the points I raised. Serious answers please.
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