What should my friend do?

Question

My friend and her husband have been married for 5 months. She was married before and her husband died. They did not have a good relationship and they had a son together. Her new husband is 23 and she is 34. She got upset with him because he was texting a girl that had come to the studio to record a cd and her first husband has cheated on her and she was very uncomfortably with her new husband texting another woman. So she told him and he got upset with her and said that she was ccomparinghim to her first husband now he is not sure that he is ready to be married. What should she do? Should she try to work it out or just ask him to leaven if that is what he wants? She says that she loves him and she know that nothing happened with this other girl,t she just wished that he would not test other girls. Is this marriage worth saving?

Answer 1

she should trust her hubby. and try to heal that old wound from her past marriage. because it will destroy her marriage with her new hubby. tell her all guys dont cheat learn to trust again.

Answer 2

Sounds like your friend has issues that might make a marriage difficult. Perhaps seeing a professional might help her.

Answer 3

yes it is worth saving let her no that he loves her and if she loves him as much as u say she does its worth saving

Answer 4

The question of "Is this marriage worth saving?" is entirely up to the couple. IMHO, no marriage should have to end, unless the one partener becomes unbearable or cheats.

She needs to deal with her insecurities from her past and trust her new husband in love. Love trusts.

He needs to be sensitive to her past, no matter where she is in dealing with it.

It's always a two way thing. If both truly love each other, the marriage is worth working on. It always requires work = the labour of love.

Answer 5

If they want to stay in a relationship then she should talk to him. And in the future she should learn to not jump to conclusions whenever he talks to people. If she does let her guard down some she might learn that this is a different guy than her first husband. And from there a new relationship, so she is going to have to think differently than what past guys have shaped her into

Answer 6

it doesn't matter  whether anything happened with that girl he texted or not - if a man is in love he is blind to others, he wouldn't notice them and surely wouldn't text any other girls. if he already started noticing other girls while they re supposed to be madly in love and romantic what would he do when they get married and live together for several years? correct, he would cheat. so she is better off without him