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What should my sister do?

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My older sister is a week away from marrying an absolute hottie, who is the sweetest guy you have ever meet, and the two of them are very happy together.

However, lately she has seemed a little upset (not with the guy though!) and anyone can see she is totally conflicted. She isn't the sort of person who openly shares her feelings, but I have managed to get a little out of her. It seems like she may be developing a crush on her co-worker. I don't know the specifics, but my sister isn't a cheater by nature, so she is really confused because she is having all these feelings and she sees it as being unfaithful.

What I want to know, is has anyone been in this situation, or know of someone who has? How was it handled?

Thanks all!

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  1. Well if your sister breaks up with her fiance maybe you can have him....since you think "he's such a hottie".  What's that about????


  2. Sounds like cold feet.  She's getting close the day she goes off the market forever, and so she starts seeing another man as a possibility in her life.  It's just the nerves talking.  It's scary to put all your eggs in one basket, and she's just owning up to that now.

    She should put this new guy into perspective.  Is he as nice as her fiance?  Would he love her and care for her and marry her like this man is doing?  Can she seriously see herself with him long term, or is it just idle fantasies of beautiful vacations, etc. Once she recognizes that there is no substance to the crush, she can re-focus on her fiance and enjoy her wedding.

    Congratulations for your sister!

  3. omg.

  4. Its called getting cold feet lot of people go through it.  She is realizing marriage= one person forever.  Its just out of fear of the unknown.  Tell her if she loves her future hubby to distance herself from the co-worker.  

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