What should we do about this?

Question

Anyone have any ideas? Okay so im going to the doc thursday and we r certain im pregnant, but my b/f just went to Boston for school and will be there 2 yrs. I live in TN that is very far from Boston. How should we work this out?

Answer 1

Well you really need to communicate this with him we really cant tell you what we think is best and you probably know all the options already. is someone willing to move or willing to change schools. Or he can attend school in boston while you stay in tn and have your webcam ready for him to see the baby everyday and hopefull he will visit as much as possible. Good luck on your blessing!

Answer 2

Well you would have to weigh the pros and cons. If your family is in TN than you would want to stay there. What are you in TN for? Is there anything keeping you there? He went away to Boston for school. Could he transfer to a local school? You wouldn't want to pick up and leave if you have family and friends, a job, and what not. But if nothings holding you back then go to Boston. But if you have all that in TN it would make more sense for him to transfer locally. I hope I helped. Good Luck and Congrats!

Answer 3

I would recommend him finding a place and you moving to Boston with him. Going back and forth visiting isn't right. You guys should have worked this out already, I'm hoping that he includes you in his plans. You really want your love with you through your pregnancy, for support and such. Talk it out with him, and do not stop until you're happy. Good luck.