What should we tell our mate?

Question

Me & my m8s are tryin to arrange a stag do for another friend, were talkin about goin to blackpool overnite for a good day out at the pleasure beach and a good bevvy at nite and stayin at a hotel, we stay in scotland and the best man is now saying his missus wont let him go!!! i mean he's the best man!! hw can he not go!? hes meant to be gettin married himself nxt year but i dont see the point if she cant even trust him to go on a stag do! any ideas on what we can do?

Answer 1

See if you can talk to the best man and get him to negotiate with his wife-to-be about how significant this is for the groom. Another option is to try and get another female to talk to his wife-to-be. That IS a difficult situation. Hope the best man is really sure about his future marriage. At present, that means no bachelor party for him at all when his time comes. Yikes!