What should your attitude be if you thought alot of people didnt like you ?

Question

should you cry about it everyday, really worry about it and take it to heart, beg people to like you - try really hard out of your character to make people like you ?

or

simply dont give a fck attitude, revel in it, and act aggressive towards everyone to cause further contempt and bad feeling between you and everybody else ?

what would you do if you though that ?

if you thought a lot of people didnt like you and were trying to get rid of you ..

Answer 1

None of the above. Just let it pass over you like a tall wave. You'll still be left standing. There will always be waves, i.e. people who don't like you. There are people on YA in a different area who don't appreciate my opinions. There are others who add me to their Contacts and email me thanking me for my answers. You can't please everybody, so I don't try. However, I also don't harbour anger or ill will against those who I don't see eye to eye with either. Just let it go and carry on with your life. Once you let your anger and bad feelings take control of you, you have no power left. You have given your power over to your feelings. Remember, you are in control of your feelings, not the other way around.

Answer 2

A thinking person will always analyze any situation..We all like to be accepted..Sometimes that CAN'T happen for various reasons..Some could be our fault,,some the other parties..Regardless,,the most important thing in life to do is self examination..Was the incident our fault? By our actions ,did we create hurt and anger??Honestly,,is how we are acting,,aggravating and starting problems?? And lastly,,could we have handled the situation any differently as to not incite a problem?? If the answer to all of the questions is"NO",we are not at fault..IT is the other people involved.. Sometimes in life,,self centered,selfish people, create problems and over power others to be right..They care not about anyone's feelings but their own.. These peoples  SHOULD be avoided !! If you find people who seem to want to get ride of you or insult you to leave,,you don't need people like that!! And to get angered or let them see they are getting to you,,allows them to win..Change you contacts,,and seek new people to intermix with.. Believe me,,they are out there,,you just need to search them out..Also,,its very much worth the search..You will never change those "BAD"  kinds of peoples,,so don't waste you time trying.. They are  not even worth your time.. Surround yourself with things that are pleasant and enjoyable,,and that goes for people especially !! Good Luck !!  SOLOMON

Answer 3

First, I 'd ask myself if this is real or imagined. Sometimes we think people do not like us, and they don't even know us.

Second if I knew for a fact that they didn't like me and was trying to get rid of me.

I would leave, you cannot make people like you.

There are plenty of people in the world who will like you, but you have to give them a chance.