What shud i do? shud i leave?

Question

my man tells me regularly what women he likes on t.v in p**n mags or in the street, i'm fed up with it, he says he loves me but it doesn't feel like it, if he's always looking at other women he cant be that in2 me rite? when i mention it to him he says i'm over reacting, my heads telling me to leave him but my hearts telling me to stay we have a baby together, why is he being like this?

Answer 1

that would upset me too. i would tell him how much it bothers you. if that doesn't work, tell him you need a break h**l need to stay some where else. then maybe h**l realize he misses you and quit. cause that will be what its like with out you.

Answer 2

There's two things here you need to consider before you up and leave.

One, you have a baby together and second, your own well-being.

Ask yourself how this affects your baby, how this affect you and your feelings towards him.

If possible try to talk about what's making him compare you to others? Are you doing anything to make him act that way?

There's many things to go through before you decide to leave. If you can't communicate on your own, I would try therapy, at least for the baby's sake.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Ok, so you have talked out the issue with him and he still won't listen.....Do to him what he does to you. See how he likes it. Subscribe to Playgirl, talk about hotties on T.V. and hot men you see out on the street. He sounds very disrespectful. It's ok to look, but he don't need announce it. Especially after you have mentioned that it hurts your feelings. I would be ****** off too! If that is how he treats you then treat him the same...give back what is given. Just because you have a baby together does not mean you are stuck with him, you have to do what is best for you and your baby. Do you want your child to treat there spouse like that one day? Children are very smart and will pick up that trait. I would try it for a little while(what I suggested, if your up for it), If things do not change on his part...then I would leave. You don't want to spend the rest of your life with an disrespectful jerk. He should be kissing the ground you walk on...you gave him a child!

Answer 4

It's his habit.

It's absolutely sure that he loves you.

Don't let it get to you about his action.

You shouldn't split up with him.

Answer 5

because he's an idiot who doesn't appreciate you. I know it's hard but find another man, someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. good luck