What signs would u be looking out for ?

Question

if u thought your guy friend likes u im picking up on loads of stuff but as hes flirty i dont know if its just him or hes crossing the line

Answer 1

It’s difficult to be specific as we all react differently in various situations.

If you know him well, then you’ll know how he behaves generally around other women/girls who are about your age. The key is how his behaviour changes from the norm when he’s with you.

So for instance,

- Does his stance change around you? Is he more upright with a puffed out chest (or if this is his norm, does he become a little shy and introverted around you?).

- When you’re chatting does he confide in you or perhaps he’ll act super confident.

- Does he contact you a lot more than you would expect him to with other friends?

Just to refresh, the key is NOT to list out specific behavioural patterns such as “acting cool” because he may always act cool – so that tells you nothing at all. It’s all about how or if he acts differently when around you.

Just one more thing; you could always try to tell him how you feel..

HTH and good luck