What status will i declare on my visa application if im married based on NSO records in Manila?

Question

I had this civil wedding in 1995 but unfortunately my groom abandoned & left me & didnt live with me.Marriage was held in Quezon City hall, Philippines.I did not use his name & all of my transactions & documents is still on single status.Now that i want to travel & go to the states to take a vacation, what status will i tick on my application?Is it single or will I declare it as married?My fear is that if i will put on single, they will check it through NSO & will find that I have a record there as "married".If i will declare it as married all of my documents are under my maiden name.My marriage has not yet been annulled nor a legal separation hasnt been filed yet.My ex already has a family of his own & i too has my own son from a past relationship.Please help all i want to do is to travel & have a grand time. Thank you

Answer 1

Married.  For God's sake, don't lie when dealing with the US embassy in Manila or you'll find yourself banned from travel to the US for life.

Answer 2

You have had 12 years to address the situation... maybe it is time for you to follow through.  Until then, you are legally married - the records exits.  Declare your status as being married, and add comments if you wish; you will be provided the opportunity to add to the explanation if necessary.