What steps to take to make a love relation everlasting?how to convert it into marriage?

Question

he loves me but i am scared if he forgets me later.we were in 12th class whrn we fell in love.our relation is only 5 months old.now we are separatrd as we have left the school after the board exams. i have taken addmission in pune and he in mumbai.from 3 months we are in contact through phone and he still cares and loves me.how to get on with the relation.how to continue the interest that we have interest in future to maintain our dates.how to win his trust, his confidence. FINALLY WHAT TO DO TO CHANGE OUR LOVE LIFE INTO MARRIAGE AND CONTINUE OUR RELATION FOR 5 LONG YEARS WITHOUT MARRIAGE AS WE ARE STUDYING NOW. HE HAS KISSED ME ONCE. I MEAN A LONG SMOOCH.

Answer 1

I think you need to relax with this relationship. If you were in 12th class (which I assume is grade, so that puts you at about 18 years old), then you are still young and have a lot of growing up to do. Focus on your schooling, not on your love life.

Answer 2

step 1- lots of oral s*x.

step 2- break up.

step 3- p**s up a rope.

Answer 3

You have a very decent opportunity, in terms of availability of time, to let your relationship grow and mature. You can't have control on other's response, no matter how close you are with that person, but you can put in best (but I suggest normal as you are usually) of your efforts to strengthen your bond between the two of you.

A word of caution! Don't expect too much out of your this growing friendship ( can I name it acquaintance - just 5 months old!) as of now, anything may happen so it should not hurt you badly in case   something wrong happens. Be prepared for everything happening in life! Instead of love relation, I suggest that you make good friendship, a true friendship in letter and spirits. Meantime both of you will come to know how compatible you are with each other. May be the physical distance (Pune and Mumbai) may prove to be a blessing in disguise to test the strength of bond between two of you over period of time.

Take time and let the friendship grow in a natural way. If you understand Hindi, it is said " Sahaj Pakei so Meetha Hoi" - fruit which ripe naturally is always sweet (good).

Review your relationship after 3-4 years and see what is the best for both of you - since you already have time at your disposal as of now.

Answer 4

you can't force anything to happen. if it was meant to be, it will be.  but COMMUNICATION is one of the keys to a lasting relationship.