What the h***? is he for real?

Question

ok hi its me again!!

i have a question and hopefully youll be able to answer.....

ok i am 16 and i had a baby girl about 7mnths ago and i was hanging with my boyfriend yesterday (just the two of us) and he says: " what do you think about me?" i told him then i asked the same question he says " your s**y i love your eyes" OMGOSH i toltally blushed(yeah hes the father of my baby) and like i still look like im pregnant i have babyfat still. i ws whereing sweet pants and a t-shirt and im all what the h**l??

do you guys think hes serious or trying to make me feel better?i was having a pretty kick a** day.

thanks for answering i dont have any picx to show sorry :(

Answer 1

You know sometimes , alot of times, a guy / man just loves the mother of his child regardless believe it or not...  and maybe he sees you for more than just sweat pants and t-shirt.  Just enjoy it.  Most 16 year old girls don't even have their baby daddy's around!!!

Answer 2

thats sweet. chances are, its a little of both. He probably wants you to feel better about yourself as most women have a very low self esteem after having a baby. Plus, he also probably cares about you and really does feel that way. Be happy =) Just relish in the excitement of what he told you and dont over think it or question it too much. Be happy. Your young and you just had a baby. Things are going to be rough at times so be thankful for the times you smile!  

Answer 3

I think he is a child. I think he is either trying to get some more a@## or was caught offguardd by your question. Whatever, it must have worked for him last time. If I was to ask my husband what he thought about me or why he loves me and he saidbecausee I am s**y... I'd be mad. You need to stop thinking about boys, take care of that baby, grow up, get an education, and stop playin online all day. One day you are going to feel so cheap and stupid for letting that boy pretend to care about you.

Or who now he might care about you and just be to immature to speak with proper words and too young to know how to express his feelings.

If you was my daughter, I'd kick his ***. He needs to go get a few jobs and stop sitting around flirting!

Answer 4

Awww, that's so sweet! And though I don't approve of your getting pregnant that's really none of my business. :)

...We're women! We look good to guys no matter what we're wearing!

Though I think he should have said beautiful instead. :P

Answer 5

This shows why people this young should not have poor children

Answer 6

Well, he had s*x with you, so yes, he clearly does think you're s**y.

Even after the baby, there's no reason to think he wouldn't still feel that way. Women are more likely to see their own physical flaws than guys are to notice them, honestly.

I have no idea what the rest of your relationship is like, but he does seem to be trying. Still, I would caution you that if you do decide to sleep with him again, make sure to use protection. No matter how you feel about each other, you don't need another baby right now.

I hope he'll take an active role in your baby's life, however things work out between the two of you.

Answer 7

totally wrong forum.