What the heck is going on?

Question

First, it was my sister! She said that she was going to look for a "new big brother." Said she didn't feel like we treat her as family! Well, everything's okay, now. But not everything. Now, it's my brother! What is going on? He was like, "It's like everyone is turning their back on me. Are you still even my big brother? I don't feel like you are anymore."

What the--? First, it was my sister, now my brother? He says he feels left out because I'm too busy with my girlfriend.

Where'd he get that idea? I don't even get to talk to my girl for days, sometimes, 'cause we're both busy with school!

What do I do?

Answer 1

They probably really look up to you and want you all to themselves.  Even if you don't see your girl every day they probably feel like she is their competition.  Let your siblings know how special they are to you and make special time for them.

Answer 2

Talk to him when none of you are upset and tell him that you are not ignoring him but that you are busy with school. make sure none of you are upset

Answer 3

Your growing up and they see your changing.  I guess they liked the old you !!!