My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We planned to get an apartment together this past June, then it was September, then I thought we had finally settled on January. Then yesterday he said maybe we should wait until April. Ugh, WHAT? He says that he wants to make sure that we have enough money saved up to rent a nice place, which is rational, but. . . come on, now. I keep asking him if he really wants to live with me and he says yes, but I'm starting to wonder. I go over to his house every other day (we live about 30 minutes apart), but he rarely (about once a month) comes over to my place because my mom won't let him stay the night and he says it's too far to drive. HAHA, right?
I love him very much and I could see myself being with him for a very long time. Breaking up is not the answer here. I just need opinions on what the h**l is going on in his head. Am I being too easy on him, letting him walk all over me about this? It would be mostly his money we're using because I'm in college, but he makes twice as much as I do anyway.
I am stuck in a dead-end retail job because he hasn't decided where we're going to move to so I'm not job hunting until a location is settled. There is nothing for me in the town that I am in, yet he keeps telling me to stick it out. Except that it is me who has the c**p job and lousy community college, not him.
Aaaaaaaaaaaaah what should I do?
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