What the heck should I do?

Question

I really hate my parents. This is not a phase, I just really hate them. They are really strict.

Answer 1

i know parents can be bad sometimes and don't you ever hate them . they are the one the brought you and show you the world . they are strict because they think that something bad can happen to you , so they are just doing their job .  

Answer 2

just put yourself in their shoes, i don't think their doing it to make you bad, totally counter of that.

my older brother feels the same way. but i can tell he's not in a position of reclaiming all what he wants (going freely to the movies, stay in someone else's home, etc).

but i think that's not everyone's case. sometimes parents pressure you a lot, and they don't even mind how much harm they causing to you.

that's probably why so many people want to end with themselves at a very young age, or by hating everyone, including those who wants to help them, like my older bro  (which i hope won't be your case)

If you want to know what to do, the best way to deal with it, it's by having professional help for all of you (because they can really help with their experience with similar situations). but that's something not everyone are willing to, because they don't want to talk to each other (they think it's just for annoying) and therefor the problem, communication.

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But that's the first step: talk to them and listen them, as well. (other wise you won't get into anything)



second: try to get into a solution and don't back away till you get it, try to be neutral, too.and don't feel like the main victim thinking your the only one with problems there (like my brother who always use that as an excuse) and don't insult or be agressive (that is just gon'na make it even worst)

third: keep the deal you have done.

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although, i strongly recommend to  get counsoling cus they really  know what to do.

well good luck.

oh yeah, and just try to look at yourself as if from someone else's point of view, and observe what you can, as a child, make better.

my brother always thinks he's doing nothing wrong, but some of the things he does goes against our "agreement" as family.

hope that helps for you and your parents

and remember don't feel like the only one victim there. as the guy above said they're just doing they job.