What to ask your spouse when divorcing?

Question

My wife has asked for a divorce over six months ago. Now she wants to ask me some questions about my finances during our marriage and my actions. I would like to know what are some good questions for me to ask her. Please let me know. Is it better over the phone or in person?

Answer 1

well i think you should meet in person with or with out a lawer (up to you). i would ask her why she left, what is the future holding for you too, why she wants to know about your financial business and what you feel in your heart. be honest with her and yourself. you might regret it in the end.

good luck and i hope everything works out for you.

Answer 2

I think your lawyer should talk to her lawyer. At this time things could get emotional and you both might say or do things you will regret later.

Answer 3

her greedy *** wants your money,! witch!

Answer 4

do not answer any of her questions period. she is trying to set you up somehow. talk with a lawyer asap

Answer 5

I guess with a lawyer present would be my guess.

Answer 6

Why do you want a divorce, is what I would ask her?   Does she consider the vows she took as serious or is marriage not a serious commitment?  If she is a Christian, I would ask her if she truly DOES love Jesus and if so, how can she truly believe that and disobey Him in such a blatant manner?   I would also ask her if she understands that if she divorces you that in God's eyes she will never be free to marry unless you die.    If she does remarry, she will be viewed as an adulteress in the Lord's eyes.   I would also tell her that civil/man's laws do not supercede God's law.   Though man may say that one is "free" to do this or that, it certainly does not mean man is free in God's eyes...........I pray that you both will come to your senses (if this is a first marriage for both of you) and reconcile with each other, forgiving each other's shortcomings/sins.    Blessings...........

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Answer 7

Ask her the same things.  Ask about everything you were ever curious about.  It would actually be better for you to do nothing, because she can/will use it against you in court.  If she wants to get back with you that is different.  

Answer 8

Do not tell her any info about your finances.  She can s***w you over big time and take your money.  Don't even talk to her without your attorney present.  Actually, your attorney and her attorney are "supposed" to do all the communicating, that is why they get paid the big bucks.  

Answer 9

It would be best in person that way you have a chance at tappin the booty for old times last time sake...As far as questions go I have no idea what to ask her, but sounds like she's digging to find out what you got so she can TAKE IT ALL, move all your funds to an offshore account and sell everything!

Answer 10

Only have a lawyer talk to her. You dont !i

Answer 11

1/2 of EVERYTHING!

Answer 12

shes probably trying to get alamony or something i would get your layer and meet her in person.

Answer 13

You should probably have a lawyer there.

Tread lightly.  Choose your words careflully before you say anything

splitting shared assets would probably be a topic of discussion.

If there are no children involved it will may be easier.

If this is not a mutual divorce she will likely need to site 1 or more reasons for the divorce.  You may know what they are but should look into the possible reasons for divorce.

Answer 14

in person, ask what went wrong and why she wants the divorce