My daugther (7yrs)has being asking questions that I don't know how to answer anymore.We have being separated since I was 4 months pregnant because he was cheating with his now wife. But I never took away his rigths as a father. When she was little I used to called him & ask him to come and pick her up I he wanted, as she grows she is the one always calling him, but he usually doesn't answer bjut still she left messages. 3 weeks ago she called him & left a message wishing if he could buy her an special edition bear of High School Musical, but ever since he haven't called, so she called again last week the same happend. Which I did too because our daugther needs a surgery & he need it to know but still he haven't called or anything I even left a message at his mother's home. This past weekend he went to my mom's & left a present with my little brother (we live only 7minutes from where he lives & my mom lives almost 15min away) SO my daugther was so happy thinking it was the bear,sadly it wasn't it was a backpack she can't even used at school, so she called to thank him anyways but again he didn't answer. I think in her 7yrs she have only stay at her dad's about 17times and others for 4 to 5 hrs.She asked me why he never cared for what she likes or wants, and her little sister always gets everything even going to Disney last year he didn't invite our daugther, because he told him I didn't want her to go,which is not true he didn't even ask me.I was so mad that time becuse of her. Now we are planning our trip to Disney World this coming November. I had try to talk to him about this & I know for him money it is not an obstacle,he can offer more even for child support he just pays $220 per month and I know he earns much more, but I really don't care about $$ all goes to her savings account. But I do care for my daugther I feel bad for her and I don't know what to do. But I don't think it will be good to tell her not to call anymore and maybe he can start looking for her. What should I do? How do I explain something I don't know why is happening all this years. Her surgery is in 2 weeks & he haven't called to ask what is wrong or when, where & at what time it will be. Thank God my hubby has being there for her like a real father for her, but still I think she wants a little love from her "dad". How to comfort her? I hate seeing her being sad because he never answers or look for her, she is a sweet girl & great student too. Advices please!!!
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