What to do? WAS I PLAYED? Please help!! ?

Question

I met a guy off myspace (1st time doing that LOL. weird) We hit it off, mutually attracted, had a great time, easy conversations etc. The entire time we were hanging out he seemed to be tryin to impress me with his job, money and looks all of which were well...impressive. At the end of the night we kissed and he totally tried to get in my pants. I said no since this was the first time we'd ever even seen each other.

I had to leave town the next day. Before I left his house that night he said he thought I was nice, cool, s**y, purty. He said we'd talk every day... anywho, it's been several days and the fact that we've only texted back and forth a few times with me initiating the convos makes me think that maybe i was played. He was lookin for an easy lay. didn't get it. let me go. I'm not upset about it, just confused and would like to know WHAT TO DO to find out for sure if this is all that happened. Like should I ignore him, keep initiating conversations or ask him what the h**l he's thinking. Please help!!!!!

Answer 1

Very sad to say he probably does not even have a job. He was wanting to score and since you agreed to meet him he thought he could score with you. I am very proud of you for not giving in. Alot of these guys try this and then they go around and talk trash about the girl. Ignore him. I think this is best for you. Stop meeting guys online most of the time it is a bad idea. Not a good way to keep safe. There was a case last year about a girl who met someone on craigslist and that person killed her so be careful. God bless you.

Answer 2

ignore him. He seems to be a prick

Answer 3

from experiance i see the best way to deal with men (me being one) is to be straight up with them, we men dont like go around things and being hinted towards things, we want things on a platter simple and easy! Be straight up with him, ask him what was up, maybe he was scared that you turned him down?

Answer 4

well yes you were played, if he wanted s*x the first tim you see each other... you should just leave him alone!dont waste your tim with him!

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Answer 5

He wanted to get in your pants, trust me. Good job not letting him. I suggest don't call or text him at all.

Answer 6

It is possible you were played just for the easy lay.  It is also possible he just didn't feel that he wanted to be in a longer relationship with you.  Played or not, you were wise to stick with your boundaries.