My wife and I are losing our patience and our sanity with her son (my step-son). He's going to be nine years old very soon, but he exhibits behavior of a wild 4-5 year old. No form of discipline works, and no punishment seems to phase him. He refuses to go to any restaurant where there aren't toys involved without at least thirty minutes of struggle to get him in the car. When he doesn't get what he wants, he throws fits, breaks things, and has now begun urinating all over our basement when he's upset (I don't mean having accidents, I mean pulling down his pants and aiming). We have tried enrolling him in Martial Arts since we heard that helps with discipline and focus, and his instructors say he is a pleasure to teach, but that goes out the window as soon as we leave. It also doesn't seem to help when he visits his bio father and grandmother on weekends. Any progress we make completely disappears when he's there, since they let him do whatever the heck he pleases. Any advice??
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