What to do about a bully?

Question

Theres this girl at work who is a bully when she gets drunk. Last night she was trying to pick me up to prove that she is bigger and stronger than me. I thought it was just play but then later I got the implication of it when she was teasing me because Im short and round (5'2) and she is tall and long (5'9). I dont want to tell the manager and Im not the type to run away from any fight. My pride is ruined. And Im not the type of person to be a p***y towards someone and say "excuse me, can you please stop bullying me". How should I act towards her? If she wants to fight me, I will. How do you fight a bigger person without gettint hurt? I want her to know Im not passive and Im not one to be tested. I hit pretty hard But I didnt want to hit her that night because I knew she was just playing. What shouls I do?

Answer 1

i doubt you and her would get in a real fist fight, i mean youre both adults right? if you ever do get in a fight, just sock her in the stomach so she'll bend down then you can sock her in the nose, and what did you to do to make her wanna to prove it? it takes 2 to tango

Answer 2

ohh.. i thought this was about a kiddie bully thing..  

Answer 3

tell her to get off your nerve and to back off or she'll cop an *** kickin.

Answer 4

ask if she can lift someone her size or even heavier, just casually ofcourse...or else "Oh your so strong, but I'd really be impressed if you pick me up from the groud and put me on your shoulders and carry me around!" It'll be so much fun!  

Answer 5

Violence is not the answer! what you have to do is ignore her but at the right time. when she is not drunk and shes normmal just ignore her so she can see something is wrong and if that doesnt work well be a women and put a stop to it tell her you dont want yourself in her games to keep you out of her games and to keep your name out of her mouth but tell her seriously not playing around or being nice not trying to hurt her feelings.

Answer 6

ok grab her punch the **** out of her face when i  mean grab like headlock  

when she hits u if it hurts just laugh cuz u will for get about the pain it works 4 me

also try to jump on her and headlock cuz they cant take twice there weight

hope it helps

if thes dont work keep in mind

big ppl r very top hevy so take out their legs and start to punch and ****** pull her hair out lol

make her *** bald lmao

Answer 7

first off you shouldnt hit a girl. second you shouldnt be hitting anyone and lowering to there standards its just plain childish. 3rd ask for help in getting her to stop.

Answer 8

Easy way to sort this out, don't tell her you want a fight, or that you are bothered about it, but if she says anything more about it, simple, just hit her right between the eyes. If the manager finds out, tell her you she provoked you. Simple as pie.

Hope I've helped :D

Answer 9

Say to her,in casual conversation.

you know u were being a ***** to me when you were drunk.

If that doesnt stop her,

Whack her one

Answer 10

Just joke around with her back.Usually they back off when you do that.You show that your not scared.

Answer 11

she might be jealous of you.. but  here are some of your options:

A) ***** slap her. that's what I'd do..

B) say "excuse me? why don't you put me down?"

C) tell her to "F*** OFF" with a smile so she thinks you are playing around with her just the same.

Answer 12

okay first off if its work..then why is she being immature enough to do this, why is this even happening? thats absolutely rediculous..i  mean comon this isnt 3rd grade again..you DO tell her first..if she doesnt stop you tell the manager..i never ran from a fight..but i dont see the need to lose your job over one thats so stupid and trashy..BUT if you HAVE to fight her, run full force into her and charge at her, dun care how big she is, "bigger they are the harder they fall" you know? and from what i hear it reallly hurts when women get punched in the ti*s..so you can try that too..its like the female version of being punched in the balls for a guy..but if not either of those then when you guys get drunk, pull a bottle over her head and use the broken shards as a shank...

Answer 13

IF she starts teasing you again shrug your shoulders and quietly walk away. Don't encourage her.

Hope I helped:)