What to do about a friend who stabs me in the back (steals the guy i like and things like that) PLEASE HELP?

Question

i have a friend who steals the guy that i like and talks about me behind my back but denizens it later and is just in general a bad friend! i don't want to fight her or tell her that i don't want to be friends anymore so what to do PLZ HELP

Answer 1

She is obviously a bad influence in your life so why do you hang out around her. I have a friend like that too. I put up with it for too long so don't make that mistake because now if I say anything she takes it personally. Tell her how you feel. If she is a true friend she will understand.

Answer 2

Don't let her know about any of your personal business. Don't trust her with your personal information. And stop talking to her.  

Answer 3

With friends like this, you need no enemies! Just find another friend! and don't forget, What comes around goes around!!!!

Answer 4

da onli thing u can do is talk to her and try to tell her that u lkd hym first and if she was a true friend she'd understand and leave ur guy alone, juss try talking to her it helps.

Answer 5

Duh that is not the definition of a friend hello!!!

Answer 6

Pray for her and at the same time back away from the friendship! She is not your real friend and if you decide to stay friends with her she will hurt you even more in the long run! so just keep your distance, and it's ok to say hi but Conversation wise keep it at zero, and if she asks you why you do not talk to her anymore then just remember you do not owe her a answer! you don't have to tell her anything! just be real and tell her it's best if we go our separate ways on a positive note! hope i helped!!!!

Answer 7

There is an old saying ... no one can take advantage of you unless you let them and that's exactly what you're doing.  If you aren't going to stand up for yourself and break this relationship (and don't fool yourself that it is a "friendship") off, then you are just going to have to learn to accept being used.

Answer 8

oh my god.

i know a chick just like that.

dont fight.

you just have to pull away from her.

lose contact with her.

dont call, text, message, and try not to talk to her.

if she does, sure why not. but if she wants to hang out say no, your making other plans. dont give her an explanation. she dosnt deserve one.

if she asks "why are you ignoring me?", just tell her that you dont like the way shes been treating you and needs to clean up her act if she wants to continue being friends.

simple as that.

the girl i know is still stupid. but im not friends with her, so i dont have to deal with her

Answer 9

she's obviously not a good friend because you said that she talks about you behind your back.

does she knows that you like the guy? if she knows it, tell her to back off and don't steal him from you.

Answer 10

Well, if you don't want to tell her that you don't want to be friends anymore than you can expect to be walked all over until you graduate high school.

You need to confront her.  She is a passive aggressive bully.  And everybody knows that you have to stop a bully.  She is only going to continue testing your limits until she knows how far she can go.  So what if she gets mad?  It's not like she can treat you much worse.

Anyway, tell her how you feel and exactly what you don't like.  Don't back down or get nasty.  Be clear and firm with your feelings.

Answer 11

either talk to her or move on your so better then to get so low and steal him back