What to do about fiance? Need help?

Question

I need to spice up my romance with my fiance. He is mad because I can't seem to get his ex to be friends with me. His only wish is for us to be friends so he could see his son. She will not have anything to do with me.

So rite now he is mad at me not answering my calls. I want to do something special for him to show him how much I love him.

Does anyone have any good ideas on how to get the romance back?

Please help me I am desperate for ideas.

Answer 1

Why is he blaming you for his ex's actions?  Visitation is an issue he should be working out with her directly, or at least through their lawyers.  Personally, I wouldn't be putting in any extra effort to win him back until he shows that he loves you regardless of whatever she does to drive a wedge between you.

Answer 2

tell him that he is going to have to deal with this situation with her differently than by asking you to try to be friends with a woman who obviously does not like you.  tell him you will support him if he needs to take her to court to get visitation, but to make you resp;onsible for his mess is NO NO.  

Answer 3

How is it your fault that no matter how hard you try, she doesn't want anything to do with you? I think you need to re-think marrying a guy who throws temper tantrums when he doesn't get what he wants. Don't bother trying to please him, dump him. You will be better off.

Answer 4

How about stop being such a weirdo?

Anal always works too.