What to do about my mother and sister?

Question

I am 13 and very good student.i always gets highest grades in my school.The problem isMy mother and sister who are very irresponsible.due to this i cannot concentrate on my studies due to our daily fights

my dad is no more.all my life my mother did not cared for us.daily she has new man in house she is having s*x with and they are so loud that i can hear in my room.she drinks alot .she does not support financially and i have to work to get my studies going.

My sister is on drugs and she parties alot.she is 16 but i am paying for her studies.

I dont know what to do and where to go,please advise

Answer 1

First things first; You're a strong individual and deserve better than what you are going through.

You are living in an environment that will not only stump your development, but also puts you in danger. You should look at contacting CAS or Social Services, or at the very least finding somewhere else to stay. If you are able to find some form of income, you could also try to be emancipated.

Answer 2

Pray to God to guide them to be better people ameen.

Also tell your mum that she has to respect you and that she musn't make SO much noise, this is annoying to you. Tell her that she should not have different men friends.

Tell your sister that if she doesn't stop taking drugs you won't pay for her financial support, tell her to get her own job!

Buy ear plugs then lock your room and you can study and ignore them like there not even there:) you can buy ear plugs in a pharmacy and the box has instructions how to use them. good luck!

Answer 3

u r a real brave girl. if i were in your situation i could not do anything.

sorry i cannot help u but u r a real brave girl, really

I want to be your friend

Answer 4

I can tell your very responsible and you cannot tolerate what your mother and sister are doing. Your mother needs to learn she has to take care of her children. As crazy as it sounds, I suggest you live with a friend for a while. Don't go back to your house for about a month. In that time your mother will learn that she needs to actually take care of you and your sister.

Answer 5

not 2 be a church fruit loop but go to church a couple days  

Answer 6

You are a 13 year old child and should not be raised in this household.  Talk with your school canceler and tell her/him what you told us in your question.  They will get help for you.

This is child abuse having to hear you mother have s*x every night and being around a sister that is a dope addict and fights with them.  You need out of that home environment as soon as possible.

Do you have relaties you can go live with?

Good luck!  

Answer 7

Tell your mom to start being a mom.

Answer 8

I am so sorry to hear this as you are such a young man growing up too fast. I would strongly advise you to talk to your school councellor or a relative. Sorry but you need to leave this envirement in order to be able to continue to thrive. I give you congradulations for how much you have achieved and a great big *hug*. Please try this or contact child services please I beg you....... I know it will be hard and your sister and mom will say things but its the drugs talking and you cannot help them with that they need to help themselves. Please help yourself first I urge you to please. I hope this helps and stay strong young man you are afighter^^.

oops I dont know if you are a boy or girl my apologies, but in any rate please get uot of there to a safe loving home. Email for help if you wish^^ *hugs* and stay strong I care, I am a single Mom of two girls

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Answer 9

You're 13 and paying for your sister's studies, and a top grade student yourself while you're mother and sister are S****y party girls.

Now WHY don't I believe you?  

Answer 10

Ring CHILD LINE   FREEFONE 08001111  THEIR AIM IS TO HELP CHILDREN UP TO AGE 18 WHO ARE IN DANGER, DISTRESS OR WITH ANY OTHER PROBLEM I'm sure they will be able to put you in touch with the right people to help you. They will certainly listen to what you have to say. KNowing that there is someone out there that you can talk to will at least make you realise that you are not on your own. PLEASE DO RING THEM.

GOOD LUCK YOU DESERVE IT- I HOPE LIFE WILL BE KINDER TO YOU VERY SOON

Answer 11

1) I admire how much you do.

2) Sit your mother and sister down, show them this post and explain to them how they are making you feel. There is always a chance that neither of them realise that they are making you feel like this.

3) If your mother/sister do not listen, talk to a close family friend or trusted adult, a teacher perhaps and explain this to them.

Good luck.

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