I recently started seeing my ex boyfriend again after we dated in our young teenage years. He has been through a lot in his life and had some pretty nasty experiences, and made it quite clear that because of this, in 10 years, he'd never had a relationship longer than 2 months. Naively I thought it would be different with me, but of course it wasn't.
We split up on the weekend as he doesn't feel he can give me what I want relationship wise etc etc. Although I was absolutely gutted, I made a decision not to contact him for at least a month, as I thought he would just block the situation out now and not get in touch with me, and was feeling ok about the situation yesterday.
However, he decided to contact me via facebook last night, and really wants to be friends, as in friends who actually see each other, not the cliche 'we should just be friends. He explained he can't really talk to 'females' but he can open up to me about anything, and enjoys my company over anyone else. At first, I was really happy we'd sorted things out, and felt good I mean something to him, but now I'm not sure this is going to work, as we both have strong feelings, but he won't commit to me and I know I can't have him the way i want him, i.e. as a boyfriend.
Should I give it a go being friends, or is it likely to give me false hope of the relationship developing into something more?
Thanks
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