What to do can someone help?

Question

my daughter father and i broke up about a year and a half ago for about 6 months we were friends and we would talk and he would see his daughter all the time and he would watch her so i could work but then he met the girl he is with now and then he started to hate me fight with me all the time. would refuse to watch his daughter so i could work and now has stopped seeing her all together he has not seen her scince xmas. but they will get his girlfriends daughter every weekend (he is suppose to have his daughter every weekend) any suggests and what to tell my daughter when she gets old enough to start asking questions?? She is two. He has custody of his son

Answer 1

he is no even worth the trouble. if he ants to do that to you well, he's just not worth it. and when your daughter gets older tell her the truth, after all she can make up her OWN mind as to whether or not she wants to have anything to do with her father. And after reading that I doubt she will.

Answer 2

If you were communicating well before his new lady came along and now you are not, then it sounds like she's behind it all. Sounds like he's not that attached to your daughter if he's not going to be determined to see her- so would you really want to leave her with him anyway if he's not really wanting to be there for her?  

Answer 3

action speak for themselves and you don't want answers for your 2yr old you want them for your self and thats understandable but the problem is there is no answer for him, he has to do it himself you have to do what is right for you and your daughter , and he will reap what he has done , his actions one way or the other will cost him something ,and one day he will see that, you just do right by your daughter go to church and stand in the light of the lord he will show you your path and help you  with all your needs , understanding who you are in Christ will go a long way to help you and your daughter with your ex , and give yourself the peace you are seeking, its hard to do but the truth is this is not a personal battle with him its a spiritual battle within you and god has a plan for you and those who seek his heart will have his heart good luck and be blessed and keep your chin up God loves you and has it all figured out ,just trust him    

Answer 4

It would seem that the man has deserted you and your little girl, all for the sake of a relationship with this other girl, Men like this are shallow and very insecure, and you are better off without him, your little girl now needs you more than ever, stay strong for her and try to keep busy with her, when she does ask (how come i don't have a daddy) you should tell her that she does have a daddy but he has taken a choice not to be in either of your lives, But it only means that you love her more because of it, hopefully you will meet a decent man that will treat her as his own little girl in that case it will not matter anymore, you must be sure to take the jerk to court asap and see to it that he pays to help take care of this little girl, sometimes a man will see the loss and reunite with the child lets hope he does, if not keep your spirits up and move on with your life, there are good men out there, always be sure to tell your little one just how special she is and that you have enough love for 10 people. I hope things work out for the two of you, god bless.    

Answer 5

Sounds like the new girlfriend is brainwashing him. That's horrible! She probably wanted to get rid of the communication between you two out of insecurity. I guess you could just tell your daughter the truth. There's no use in lying to her is will just make the matter worse. I suggest that you wait until you think shes ready and you can always sugar coat the truth a little to prevent some of the bad feelings. It's not your fault he doesn't see her, it's his.