What to do.. i'm trying to conceive!

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and we're trying to get pregnant, we only used protection (condoms and i tried birth control pills for about a month) for like 1 year without ever fearing of becoming pregnant, but not we want to have a baby.. and i'm very afraid that if we go to the doctor he could tells us one of us can't have kids, i know i should probably go soon, but before i do it i'd like to try different stuff that you know for getting pregnant, like positions, what to do before and after we have s*x and if you think there is a greater chance of becoming pregnant if we don't have s*x for a while and that way his s***n is even stronger..

I'm not really sure i know when i'm ovulating and have no clue how the ovulating tests work!

Please help us, this is putting us through a lot of stress!!

Thank you so much..

Answer 1

get an ovulation prediction kit. Have s*x the day before, the day of and the day after you ovulate. When your husband c**s in you, try to have an o****m because it will pull the sperm up into you. If you cannot o****m that's okay but either way lie on your back with your feet in the air afterward to allow gravity and mother nature to take its course.

Answer 2

I would see your doc if you are serious about having a child.  

Answer 3

I know how you are feeling... i'm gonna come back to your question cuz my hubby and i wanna get pregnant too.. Good Luck!  

Answer 4

Time your s*x to take place in the few days before you start your period. That is when most women are most fertile.

Both of you should take a good multivitamin. That helps some people.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Ovulation predictor kits are a good tool to have when ttc and getting the timing just right.  Missionary style is best and you can keep your legs elevated for 15-20 minutes after s*x, let gravity lend a hand.  I wouldn't wait 'a while' but maybe do it every other day.  Don't be afraid to get yourselves checked out.  It can't hurt, especially if it helps ease the mind.  Stress and worry like that can have a huge effect on your cycle and in turn, your ovulation.

Good Luck.

Answer 6

hm... how about this.... Let him stop masturbating for a while and he should eat lots of protien...... Exercise is a good booster but if you if you want to have a baby now.... just tell him to stop smokin drinking if he does and let him eat lots of nutrients..... You should also make sure that you are healthy and know what your eating, mestrual cycle etc..... You guys should do it in the middle of the month like 10-19 this days have hiegh probability according to studies...... and oh... make sure he does not waste any s***n, he must ejaculate in your body.... if still NO well call me..... I'm a sperm seller =)

Answer 7

Hi,

Go and google ovulation calender. Then it will then ask you the date of your last period and how long your cycle goes for. After that it will tell you to have s*x 3 days before u ovulate, on the day you ovulate, then 2 days after you ovulate. Seimen can last upto 5 days inside. Obce you know when you ovulate, you then will be able to predict when you have s*x at the right time. PS after you have s*x, place ur legs in the air for 30 mins against the wall.. don;'t go running straight tot the toliet straight away... Cheers