What to do if one does not have any true frnds???

Question

ppl,i'm often very lonely

i'm depressed!!!!

in my childhood i was physically unable to play down!!!! but now i have realised that idon't have true frnds whom i can trust!!!!

all frnds just remember me when they are in need and i help and support them 2 the last moment!!!!

But the irony is when i need someone's support i don't find any frnd!!!!

I cannot share my feelings with everyone as they feel that i'm boring them!!!

WHAT TO DO????????

CAN I GET A REAL TRUE FRND????(above 16)

PLEASE HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

don't get depressed,i do often feel the same loneliness,but mind you no one in the world is k**e you or me ie..,no two persons are same in this world,the disgust comes when we expect something from others,so plz don't do that instead accept the situation and console yourself,if you trust me,you could mail me back your problems[only if you wish to say],keep smiling hero.......................

Answer 2

Stop living from your past. Past is gone & now you are living in present. No one will come forward to you for becoming your friend unless you start moving out & be a little social.

It is good to be helpful but do not allow people to take you for granted. They must be there too when you need them.

If your friends find you boring, ask them what irritates them. Work on it. Would be a good idea if you start being more with the ones who understand you & care for you. Friendship has no age bar. You will get wonderful friends, I pray.

Answer 3

A true friend is the one who is with u when u need them.So I don't think your friends are true. They are using you. Try to be little more self confident. I also doesn't have a true friend. And I think that is my problem. Some problem must be in ours which others may not be liking. Ask them? Join so chatting/networking/dating sites and spend some time there. Be confident and don't keep on thinking that.Keep yourself busy in something you enjoy  doing. Be positive Yaar.

Answer 4

CAN YOU BE MY FRIEND?everytime you need someone to talk to i'll be here for you.a shoulder to lean and to cry on.

your true friend,mike

Answer 5

The best way is to think yourself as ur true best friend.

Answer 6

Speak to me ill be your friend :)

Answer 7

a true friend will come to you...

if there is a person you are meant to be with, then you will find that person or bump into them sometime.  

Answer 8

i'll be your real true friend, get in touch with me. 0401542572 :)

Answer 9

don't  worry !!!!!your true  freind is your  mother.......

Answer 10

tbh, i lost all my friends through getting with a lad who they said would hurt me and in the end, he did but i still chose him over all my other friends.

i grew up with a lad, from the day i was born (my mum and him mum are best friends) and i went to school with him, even went out with him at one time and last night, he died. he is my best friend and no-matter how lonely i got, i knew i could ring him if i needed him but now, i can't and i didn't even get to say thank you to him for everything he done for me.

if you cannot speak your feelings, then write them down;  i have done it since i was 13 as one of my ex's killed himself and i felt like i couldn't say how i felt, so i started a book about me and how i felt and it makes things better for the time you're writing and then when you're done, keep yourself occupied by doing something you enjoy.

if you need a friend to just talk to, find an online friend and it's much easier to tell someone you don't know how you feel cos they cannot judge you as they do not know you.

i'm always here if you need to talk and i know what it feels like to feel alone and i've been depressed for months now but you'll get through it, just try and keep a smile on your face :)

Answer 11

hi..........pls. don't say this you are lonely in life.

if you doesn'thave any true freind so pls.first thing which you have have to do is that cheack your weekpoints why all people doesn't likes you?

life mein har time ek jaisa nahi rehta aap jitna apne aap ko unke sath adjust kar sakte hain utna karen lekin aisa tabhi karein jub aap satisfiedho

Answer 12

Hello Dearest

Be true to yourself and then take a risk to trust and believe in someone you like :)

Hmm.. and I personaly feel nothing happenes if you dont have real or true friends.

Just work on your professional life and create your own indenty

gain expertise.

Life will rock.

Keep away from smoke and drinks.

Cheers

Answer 13

if thay only call you when thay need help that is not a friend, that is a user aways be your self people that like you for yourself make good friends, smile and talk to everone thire is a best friend out thire waiting for you, good luck a friend way over 16,

Answer 14

Mr.lonely is often used by bloggers who r terrified or pertified. Tis no precarious situation , many teenagers go through through tis. be strong face each day with vigour. find someone who shares ur wavelengths. get involed in new activites, u will friend dont worry . no one on earth can say they dont have friends, god tests u , but a friend is never to be tested.