What to do if you partner doesn't seem to understand or see that he is sneaky about everything?

Question

only talks on the phone to his son when i am not around and makes plans with out telling me till he has already told people he is doing the things with them. goes through money and is always broke.

Answer 1

How tiresome.  Step on.  Plenty of decent men out there who aren't sneaky money wasters.

Answer 2

What to do? Sounds like you need to find a new boyfriend.