What to do in this situation with a girl??

Question

so i have known this girl for about 2 years now and this whole time she has only been together with 1 guy and that was her ex and first true love. she has liked and wanted 2 be in relationships with a couple guys but it never got 2 close.

i really liked her when i first met her then slowly the feeling started 2 fade away. im not the same guy i was 2 years ago. but if i had a choice of a girlfriend i would like it 2 be her. but theres other things more important in my life.

shes in 1 of those modes where "she just wants 2 stay single and have fun". i HATE when girls say that stuff cause as soon as you turn around they will have a new man. i can respect that feeling though so i dont try to do anything 2 ruin her single having funning.

so basically i want her but i dont want her and i have no idea whats going on in HER head. so what should i do?? give her the space 2 be free that she wants, and then shell probably end up with the 1st guy she sees when she comes out of her mode???

Answer 1

A lot of girls say they want to be single for a while because they've been hurt by a prior relationship and need time to get over it and to learn to be by themselves.

If you really like this girl, tell her. Don't let the fact that she says she wants to be single keep you from saying something. She could just be waiting for the right guy to come along...and you could be him.

Answer 2

get close to her but dont be obvious to liking her .

Answer 3

she is not ur type, better move ahead and look fora newlove, shewill break ur heart sooner or later, and at that time u will loose every thing now uwont loose any thing

Answer 4

hey, firstly, i turned down guys because i was single and having fun, so don't make too much of a generalization... secondly, figure out if you want her or don't want her. then, if you want her, i would ask her out to coffee, or something really light and friendly, maybe in a group... if you don't want her, just stay friends... good luck!