What to do? need your help.

Question

My girl friend always check's my cell phone i told her many times to don't do that cos there's nothing in side there. she don't trust me. If i jokingly touch her c/phone she gets angry but i trust her that's why i never check her cell phone u know. It's not fair!!!

Answer 1

Life's not fair (sometimes..but most of the time, it's wonderful...)

Be happy today...  :)

Answer 2

Easy. find another girlfriend that doesn't check cellphone. If you meet a new one, ask first if she would allow you to check her cellphone once in a while. It it's affirmative, have a great day. If not, try again.  

Answer 3

Aiyo...... easy only mah, throw you cellphone away lor.

Answer 4

The next time she checks your cell phone, raise a big stink about it! Show how angry you are & go on bout how she doesn't trust you & so on. If you have the guts, tell her that it's over if she does it one more time. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

If she changes, good.

If she doesn't change, leave cos you'll never have a fair relationship & frankly, no one can live with someone that doesn't trust em. Can you?

If she leaves then you'll know that you were never in a healthy & fair relationship. Good riddance.  

Answer 5

haha, yes agreed. some people are very particular and defense for their privacy, but the bottom line is the tolerate level. let her be if you have nothing to hide from her, if yes, please clear whatever **** and throw away the evidence since you can't stop her from doing that.

Answer 6

That's what happens when you split with ur wife with another lady. Think your wife is bad? Now u noe ur gf is not that good either.

Answer 7

like queen control..

better u just use public phone..if her want to check again,just show nearest public phone..anytime she can check it.

...........find others...................

Answer 8

girls are all like that

sorry , its all bcoz of jealousy

but a sign of she loves u still

i just hope i dont turn that way

Answer 9

Think for " long ran " maybe is not so good, after your marriage . How ? she will check every things , ask every things , where you go, with who ? ???? !  Man need understand girl friend and Wife , to understand and support what you do*.sorry for my advice , is my very personal of view, Think over. ( if you dont like my answer , just Remove it.thank and sorry )  

Answer 10

Change girl friend...

Answer 11

Encroachment of one's privacy even before marriage is a recipe for disaster................there need to be mutual understanding and respect for each other's privacy and freedom............

Answer 12

wow... she's jealous (sorry)

Answer 13

She loves you la... you can choose to take it as a compliment if you can't change her... and be happy.