What to do to get through to her? Why are all her conversations like this? What's wrong with her?

Question

Her conversations are like this all the time even though I've known her for years?

Hi.

Hi.

How are you?

Good! How are you?

I'm good thanks. (I'll add something about my life: what I'm doing or something new.) What's new with you?

Oh, nothing. What about you?

Well, (I come up with something else to say.)

She sounds happy for me, gives advice, or says something to boost my ego.

Repeat forever.

She's a loner with low-self esteem.

Help!!!

Answer 1

Then try to boost her self esteem.. Try to talk to her in sentences to which she has to reply with more than a yes or a no.. and try to just be patient with her.. if she has low self esteem advise her to believe in herself and to join a club or a group for a hobby.. that can boost her self esteem and then she won['t be a loner either.. she could choose a creative hobby group..if she is gifted that way.. or a sports club. it doesn't matter what.. something where her interests lie. that can make a tremenduous difference to a person with low self esteem and if she accomplishes something, whatever it is she deserves to be praised and should be proud of her own accomplishements, that way she will learn to gain self esteem and will also be less of a loner.. Some people just need a longer time to warm up to new people... but when they do they can be great friends and reliable and trustworthy friends.  

Answer 2

I have a fiend like that. I feed her compliments (i don't lie but i always give compliments :))

I ask her "Have you seen batman?" and shes like no and im like

"well it looks so cool. who do you think will be the next villain??

stuff like that.  

Answer 3

maybe she is crushing on you and is trying to stay cool or shy u should ask her ?