What to do when an instructor plays power games with his student?

Question

a martial arts instructor comes on to his female student then changes his mind, then persues her attentions for months and acts all jealous of her getting other attnetion. Then he acts like a friend but comes on to her again. so she gets fed up with the game and says 'bring it on' they get into some s**y online chat but he wimps out and acts like it's all her fantasy and not his doing at all? Now how is she supposed to carry on her training with him when he's playing silly power games? she's a fair bit older than him a feels totally humiliated..should have seen it coming but couldn't work it out in time. now feels angry and disgusted..even if she changes instructor she'll have to see him and he's a good instructor..just a sh** bloke. Has this happened to you? what did you do?

Answer 1

sorry minerva but the dojo is really for training.if your destracted by the opposite s*x in class,your opponent has already beat you

.think of only your training.if he detours you from that then train elsewhere.if you like training to meet men then what do you expect?sounds like you should look into "private lessons".lol,

Answer 2

Sounds like it's time to find a new place to train.

Answer 3

Find a really big dude at the gym and go into the dojo with him.

Answer 4

kick him in the nards and say a cool one liner. ill leave the one liner up to you.

Answer 5

This instructor totally went over his boundaries and she never should have gone over them with him.

Now it's time for her to leave that place, find a whole new place to learn (not just a different instructor in the same place) and never look back.

Answer 6

Make a  report to the BBB or equivelent

Answer 7

You need to find a quality instructor thats there to teach the art not to meet women.  You're getting a bum deal by having him as an instructor.  You're there to learn no to be hit on by the instructor.  Even if you haveto drive further and leave the friends behind, you need to find a good instructor so you can learn something.