What to do when everything in your life is <span title="miserable...Job,marriage,finances,I">miserable...Job,marriage,...</span> just cant get a break!! ?

Question

It seems I take two steps forward and 4 back..I get no support from my husband..and finacially at this point I cant leave...or I will lose my house..is there any kind of solution? I feel like I am spiraling down a whirlpool ready to just let go...into the abyss....Is anyone else in this kind of situation?

Answer 1

PRAYER and communication with your husband.  

Answer 2

Turn it all over to your higher power, and trust that it will all work out.  Ask for guidance and that his will be done.  You will find peace of mind and will be guided in the right direction.  Just meditate every morning, and ask for strength and guidance.  Meditate again every night.  It will work.  You will calm down and see the light at the end of the tunnel.  It worked for me and for other people I have known.

You can not think straight until you calm youself down emotionally.  Once you do, you will find a solution.

Answer 3

I think you need to speak to a professional psychiatrists about your issues. Sometimes things seem like everyone else&#039;s fault, but it may be your perception of events. You may also find that what you suspect is true and you might want to go through with previous plans.

Your relationship needs work. Both of you need to come together, find out what is wrong, and try to fix it. If neither of you are willing to fix it or one of you isn&#039;t, then it may be time to move on. Relationships are a lot of work and if both parties are in it 100% then they fail.

Answer 4

come on gee get the man to do the right thing .. and get in and help you.. if not send him packing... as for the house just sell it .. your job can be fixed to ask for a better one .. or just change it .. you can win .. i did ... first thing is get your hubbie to get OFF HIS A$$... this will help.. good luck.  

Answer 5

Thinking negative of your problems will make you more depressed.  An idle mind is an ideal place for the DEVIL to install.

Come out, Begin to think positively.  Say to yourself, that I can do IT.  I will surely come out of the spiral.

If you sit still, thinking of all your problems, then you will remain there only.

Think of some positive thoughts.  Everyone has their own problems and many of them are in much worse condition than you.  Think of the way you can wriggle out of the problems, and slowly move towards that goal.

Prioritize, what you want to do.  

Think of one thing to do daily, and try to achieve that by the end of the day, That way, you can atleast attempt to solve one by one.

All together, your problems might look big and make you afraid.  But once you break them down to small problems and categorized them, you will find that they are easy to solve.

Have confidence in yourself.  Will power and self confidence will surely help you to overcome all your problems.

good luck and god bless.

Answer 6

my husband feels that way.

he told me. and we are working on things together. so tell your husband how you feel, and work it out together.

Answer 7

Sounds like you need a fat life insurance policy and an unfortunate act of nature.  

Answer 8

Sell the house, with the money left over you can afford to leave him.

Answer 9

as far as your state being bad for sales,its not just your state its all over the place.everyone is feeling the affects.as for your personal issues,yes ive been there ,and lost everything because i just had enough and decided the house just wasn&#039;t worth more than my sanity.that was a while ago.I&#039;m now divorced ,but I&#039;m happier than ive felt in years.so you need to decide which is more important.remember that time is the only thing that really heals.good luck.