My daughter is 6 months old and I work full time. She goes to Grandma's house 2 days a week and to public day care 3 days a week. Both my mother-in-law and our day care provider are fantastic women and both of them love my daughter dearly.
I am having a hard time with the "parenting" methods used by our public day care provider. She is wonderfully patient and truly loves her job, but the kids run all over her. There is a little boy there who is almost 3 and he is an absolute monster. He hits other kids with his hands and toys and isn't afraid to hit his parents, other parents, or Missy (day care provider). Last week when I dropped Em off Missy was putting him in the corner (FINALLY) and he said "My dad is going to kick your @ss" and she just stood there and looked at him. I've also heard him say the f-word and other inappropriate words. I know that sometimes it's best to ignore this type of behavior, but I'm concerned about my daughter spending 24 hours a week around it.
So here's my question. Do I say something to her along the lines of "I think you give Em great care, but I am uncomfortable with her in this environment" and tell her that if he continues to act this way, we'll be searching for new day care? Or do I let it go and try to teach her at home (once she's talking) that that's not how we talk, behave, etc.?
It's especially bad because there are NO openings for infants in my town, not one. And I know that she needs to keep that little boy because he's full time and Em is only part time, so she makes more money off of him. It's a tough situation and I'm not sure what to do!
I'll take any advice or suggestions that you have. Thank you!
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