What to do when your brother pushes you out of his and his kids life over a girlfriend and her kid?

Question

The girlfriends daughter told her something i said but got it all messed up, and now my brother dont want me in his or kids life?

Answer 1

You could clearly explain to your brother what it was you actually said & intended. If he won't see you then write to him. If you cannot get anywhere with this then all you can do is give him the space he needs to get his head around everything that is going on for him just now.

You could always tell him that no matter how badly he might think of you, you will always love him & be there for him should he need you.

Best wishes. UK

Answer 2

Try to talk calmly to your brother and explain to him. He might just be really angry or upset and needs some time. Make sure you apologize for any misunderstanding and inconvience you may have caused. The girlfriend and her child may not be there forever, but work on fixing the relationship with your brother first.