What to do when your fiance lies to you... again...?

Question

Well... some may remember my question from a while back http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjYkzexfdqfpWUfenxvZRxnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080703094319AAAh4U0 . Well it seems that this has.... yet again happened..... what should i do with this....

Answer 1

drop him and move back home

Answer 2

what he's doing may not mean that he doesn't love you but just that he's immature and cannot take responsibility in 1)work place, 2) household 3) relationship

i'd really suggest u to sit him down and talk to him calmly about what is going on in his life. is he willing to step it up and start going to work instead of going to play?  is he willing to starting helping around the house and take part in the partnership of being ur future husband?

is he willing to be honest to you and work hard in rebuilding the trust between the 2 of you?

trust is almost the most important thing in a relationship and if you can find urself trusting him , then it can't work in the long run.... if he's willing to rebuild it, then u should give him a chance and help guide him through this~

if he lies for the 3rd time... then tell him sorry, u need someone who is willing to be honest in a relationship and that u can not keep guessing what's truthful or not for the rest of u life... then leave him...~

Answer 3

He seems like he's not even ready for marriage, he acts pretty immature. With a guy like this he'll always try to run away from his duties, chores, and problems. Think what this will lead to in the future. If you have kids he'll probably lie again just to get away from changing their diapers etc. I think you should have a serious talk with him. Tell him that this isn't going to work if he keeps acting this way.

Answer 4

he is a irresponsible child who likes to do what he wants so you have to make a decision on what you want in the person you are with I would leave him

Answer 5

What kind of job does he have that lets him call in sick constantly with no good reason?  

Seems to me like you two are not ready to get married.  I would at the very least make him go to couples or pre-marriage counseling.  Communication and trust is key to any good marriage, and right now you two don't have either.