What to do when your wife gets too large?

Question

Almost double what we strated with, how much is too much?

Answer 1

Well tell her how you feel in a nice way then set her up a regimen like walking, running, martial arts or if it does not work cut down her  food intake in half.  Besides it is not healthy for an obese person to carry too much weight because of heart and legs problem.

Sometimes too their thyroid problem is in a whack maybe u need to take her to the doctor.  

I do not understand why women when they get married they just let go of themselves until they triple up in size.  Hopefully she sees what she is doing to herself.  

Answer 2

Offer to work out with her and don't be a douchebag about it!  

Answer 3

Yes, men are driven by what they see.  

Take her to a s**y lingerie site.  Put what you like in the cart, choose a budget, and purchase whatever is in your budget.  

Women do not like to buy a "Large".  We all want the "Small."  

See how it goes the Next Time you choose lingerie...don't wait too long and keep this in mind with the first purchase(s).

Then, enjoy that lingerie every night.  You can call it exercise, or anything you want.  

It's great cardio.

Answer 4

hump your mother

Answer 5

Call her on it!  This notion that men should just accept it when their wife porks up is a bunch of c**p.  

You gain weight when you take in more than you burn, its that simple, if you gain weight, its because you are too lazy to work it off!!!!

Isn't if funny how women can stay in shape while they're trying to trap a man into marriage, but after they lock the guy down, they pork on up!!

Answer 6

Do her a favor and leave her. She deserves someone that will love her for who she is, and not how she looks.

Answer 7

Change the question up and ask this:  WHAT SHOULD MY WIFE DO IF I GET TOO LARGE?

Come on! She is your wife!  Support her and love her, Duh!!  Offer to work our with her, exercise, go on walks etc etc. It's good for both of you!!!

Answer 8

love her

Answer 9

Offer to go work out with her and dont really make it optional.  Just tell her that for your and her health you both need to start working out and eating better.

Answer 10

pay more attention to her dont comment on her weight get her more active.she will lose it for you.

Answer 11

  I think the way you're asking this question is revealing your true feelings about your wife.  If you were worried about her health, then you'd be fine.  But your not worried about her.  I say you should bail.  Seriously, no woman wants to be with a guy who loved her for appearances and not who she is as a person.  She would be better off.

Answer 12

Depends on the reason she gained weight.  Is she depressed, did she just have a baby, prescription weight gain?? It all would depend on why she has gained the weight.

Answer 13

to large of what.. ??.. size..  

Answer 14

if u love her it shouldnt matter.....

but maybe u should bring up eating healthier..or walking around together....

whats the thumbs down for?

Answer 15

love her ANYWAY...YOU MARRIED HER!

Sooo SAD!

Answer 16

You love her just like when she was skinny. There are many reasons why she might gain weight and not just because of eating everything she sees. Suggest both of you take a walk in the evening or some other activity that offers exercise. She may realize that she is putting on the extra pounds and try to loose it herself. Be supportive and compliment her efforts, even if she has set-backs.

Answer 17

Well if you truly love your wife theres no such thing as too big... Why has she gained weight? Has she had children, or is she depressed? Why would you want to bail out just seems your using the weight as an excuse to get out of the marriage.  How would you feel if it were the other away around and she posted this question about you???????

Answer 18

You should wonder what you are doing wrong for her to be gaining weight in the first place.

Answer 19

change your mindset , more to love.

Answer 20

Pay for her to join Weight Watchers.

Answer 21

....Don't tell her shes getting too large.

Don't offer to "EXERCISE" .

Offer to go on a romantic walk in the park .

Or go swimming *rawr*.

Lmao.

Any type of activity but don't call it "exercise" .

Answer 22

If you think about it, you could be asking to real different questions, depending on whether you're talking about her growing pregnancy or just her growing.

The just growing one? Hard one. When it's a tough call, fall back on the basic principle that when something bothers you a lot, you tell her and talk about it. (That's assuming she didn't just go from a size 4 to a size 5 or something equally foolish.)

Answer 23

put that fat a$$ on a  treadmill...or make her join the army...they will get her in shape

Answer 24

Her size should not be the issue!!! unless that's all that matters...? if she is "GETTING LARGE" she could be happy in the marriage ..or the opposite she could be unhappy.. however the issue should BE her health not her SIZE!! unless you are with your wife because of her looks and not for who she is dis-spite her size.. there are many ways to encourage exercise.. and really what would you do if she said something to you..? when you thought that she has already excepted you the day she married you... then you let go a little and she decides she doesn't like it and wants you to change... turn the tables then you will understand how to handle the situation.. good luck!