What to do with boyfriend, girls only?

Question

how can i respect my bf now after he lost a wrestling match to a girl. he wrestles on the HS wrestling team and he was matched upagainst the girl and he lost!!. he was winning the whole match until she managed to reach between his legs and give him a hard squeeze, then he collapsed and was pinned. his excuse was she hurt his balls. what am i gonna do with him now?

Answer 1

I think you need to dump him.  You're obviously not good girlfriend material if him losing to a girl (or anyone else) impacts your respect for him.  He deserves much better than you.

Answer 2

believe him and say she cheated his balls were really hurt.