What to do with my life?

Question

I don't mean to sound like I'm full of myself, but I'm struggling with what it is that I really want to do with my life. I tend to be good or okay at almost anything that I do--not the best, but just good.

I am good at writing, designing/decorating interior spaces, designing web page layouts and graphic related things, good working with numbers, singing, and other things if I tried.

The problem is good is not good enough. Sometimes I wish I was really good/one of the best at something so I can stop wondering what it is I should really do.

In a way, I'm kind of like Jennifer Lopez who does acting, singing, dancing, and clothing design. She's not the best at any of those, but she is mutil-talented.

Anyone else have this issue? Suggestions?

Answer 1

well, atleast you're doing "good" in  all of those...

you know some people get frustrated when they've been working so hard just to be good at writing,singing or anything...

Try to appreciate what you've got...

Don't you think its nice to know that you got a bit of everything? that you're multi-talented like J. Lo?

For sure a lot of girls out there are dying to become like her... or like you...

however, if you really want to be the best at something, then maybe you should focus on one. try doing the thing that you feel so passionate of... do what you really enjoyed doing... decide how do you want yourself to be known and remembered...

once you figure it out, focus... and give more effort working on that!

Answer 2

nobody can tell you what to do with your life but you. as for figuring it out, here's a question. if you had just a week to live, what would you want to be remembered for having accomplished. singer? designer? writing? something else? the answer to that question should give you some insight into what's really important to you in life. hope that helps!